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Faith Pushes Fear Aside

“While Jesus was still speaking, some people came from the house of Jairus, the synagogue leader. ‘Your daughter is dead,’ they said. ‘Why bother the teacher anymore?’ Overhearing what they said, Jesus told him, ‘Don’t be afraid; just believe.’” Mark 5:35–36 (NIV)

The most oft-repeated command in the Bible is simple and yet incredibly challenging: Do not be afraid. Jesus says it at disconcerting times: in the midst of a squall that threatens to swamp a boat, when he’s telling his disciples he’s leaving, when a child dies. Jairus looks at Jesus when he hears this awful news, and the look on his face must have prompted Jesus to quickly tell him not to be scared, that everything would be okay.

What are you afraid of? Often our fears are focused not on what is actually happening, but what could possibly happen. When a child or spouse is late coming home, we are afraid they’ve been in an accident. When we’re given a tough project at work, we’re afraid we won’t be able to do it. We don’t confront, because we’re afraid of conflict. In Jesus’ simple statement—“Don’t be afraid; just believe”—we learn that the antidote for fear is faith. But where do we summon up faith like that?

John Ortberg writes in Faith and Doubt of his experience on a high ropes course at camp with his daughter. He thought he believed the ropes would hold him and he would be safe. And yet when he actually got up on the course, he said, “I found out my body did not believe I was safe.” Ortberg concludes: “Faith is coming to believe with my whole body what I say I believe with my mind.”

When we are willing to take risks, to step out and believe the rope of God’s love will hold us, we begin to really believe, and our faith pushes our fear aside.

Faith Step: What are you afraid of? In which specific situation you’re facing is Jesus telling you “do not be afraid”?

Faith and Honest Devotion

In the church my family attends, we read the passion narrative on Palm Sunday. We read it from start to finish, with various people assigned speaking roles.

It’s not a performance, just Scripture proclaimed in different voices: Jesus, Pilate, Peter. The congregation is given the part of being the crowd. We’re the ones who cry out, “Crucify him!”

Frankly, it’s a bit awkward. I mean, I don’t want to seem lackluster or disinterested when demanding, “Release Barabbas!”… but then again, it wouldn’t do to sound overly enthusiastic. And I love that awkwardness. I love it because it makes me face the fact that on some days, some portion of my worship isn’t worship. It’s posturing. I’m aware of my audience, and it’s not entirely God.

None of us like to admit that our prayers are sometimes in part crafted for the ears around us. We’d like to gloss over the truth that our kindness and generosity may be influenced by a desire to be thought of as good Christians. But though we wince to admit that we’re not 100% God-directed, it’s better to be honest than to pretend we’re better than we are. It’s the only way to grow in faith.

While we’re facing facts, here’s another one to ponder: Everything we do in this imperfect life will come from mixed motives. That tells us the appropriate response to discovering we have a split devotional focus isn’t shame, but prayer. Prayer as in:

Lord, draw my heart away from the rewards of this world and focus it fully on you.
Father, help me think less of what others think, and seek to please you only.
Jesus, show me where my weaknesses lie—and help me grow stronger in love.

We can’t overcome human nature alone. The only way to grow closer to God is with his help.

Experience Everyday Miracles

I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. —Psalm 139:14 (ESV)

A flash of white zoomed down the walnut tree and across the lawn. I stared at it from the dining room, trying to figure out what I was seeing—a white rat? No, the tail was wrong. Big and bushy, it moved like a squirrel. A white squirrel? Watching closer, I yelled for Tony or the boys to get a second opinion. What the heck is it?

The boys came first. They looked out, said, “Yeah, I see it, a white squirrel,” and walked away. I tried to tell them the uniqueness of the situation, that it isn’t every day you see an albino squirrel. I told them I’ve been on this earth for decades and it’s the first one I’ve ever seen and, if I were a betting person I’d say I’m not likely to see another.

Tony came to the window. His eyes widened. “That’s something,” he said. I watched the squirrel run up and down an oak and then disappear in the knot of a maple.

Nature’s anomalies feel sacred. Their differences call out the beauty in everything around us. Their existence seems to say, I’m special, but everything else is, too. Look, look at that crow, hear the way his call sounds like “mama-mama.” And that tree over there, towering over the house, that started as a seed. The dandelions, yellow now, will later give children pause to blow on them and wish. All day long that little white squirrel helped me see the extraordinary in the ordinary, and I am blessed to be a witness.

Great Creator, the world is filled with so many wonders. Forgive me if I forget to notice and thank You for today’s “white squirrel,” a heavenly messenger to call out the miraculous all around me.

Encourage One Another

Someone I work with on community projects—I’ll call her Sue—has a tendency to forget to follow through on things.

It’s aggravating. It’s so aggravating that sometimes I get fed up even before she lets me down. My thoughts of Sue are peppered with words like always (messes up) and never (is reliable). My actions are salted with sighs and rolled eyes and muffled groans.

A few weeks ago my 11-year-old, Maggie, told me about a podcast she’d listened to about something called confirmation bias. “That’s when you have an opinion about something, and then all you see is proof that what you believe is true,” she explained. Seeing that I needed a bit more clarification she added, “You know, like when you think someone is lazy. You stop noticing what they do, and only see what they don’t.”

My thoughts turned uncomfortably to Sue. I wondered how much of my frustration with her is due to her failings, and how much is due to my eagle eye for seeing them. There have been times when she did what she was supposed to.

Did I notice?

Did I give her credit?

Do I ever focus on her strengths?

Do I offer positive reinforcement when she does what she’s promised?

Perhaps the single most important thing I can do to improve my working relationship with Sue is to follow the advice of Paul, and remember to “encourage one another and build each other up” (1 Thessalonians 5:11). I need to develop the kind of confirmation bias where I habitually see what’s good in Sue, so that both of us grow into the people God wants us to be.

Discover God-Filled Moments

“Surely the Lord is in this place, and I did not know it.” —Genesis 28:16 (NAS)

I’m a college grandma in a fall semester fiction-writing course. One evening I was to introduce an essay on the significance of place in fiction writing. Author Eudora Welty emphasized seeing place through eyes of discovery. The tired and overlooked and familiar setting, newly awakened, can deepen the meaning of the story.

As I drove onto the campus up a long hill, I was dazzled by flaming torches of red-orange maple leaves. A quartet of girls walked down the grassy slope toward a grove of trees. One broke free from the group and flung herself down on a crunchy cushion of leaves bunched beneath a tree. She lay on her back swinging her arms and legs, making a leaf angel. I’d made snow angels, but angels in leaves were a novelty.

Suddenly I wasn’t driving to class on an ordinary autumn evening. I was discovering place—place ablaze in sunset, transformed by a leaf angel, celebrated with youthful exuberance; place possessed of meaning that quickens me each time I revisit or remember it.

I wonder, how might I be revitalized if I began to see my life through eyes of discovery, if I looked for fresh meaning in my daily routine and said, “Surely the Lord is in this place, and I do know it”?

Ever-present God who fills “all in all” (Ephesians 1:23), fill wherever I am with awareness of You.

Devotion in Overwhelming Times

An email came in today from a friend who may have to have her son committed. That was an hour after I ran into a friend whose family is facing eviction.

It was two days after someone else’s son died, four days after a woman from my mom’s group rushed her husband to the ER in dire condition.

There are times when my prayer list spins out of control, when people in need multiply like the brooms in Fantasia. Seeing so many people in crisis gets overwhelming. My heart gapes. My toes begin to dip into the slough of despond.

And then I think, Stop. Whatever it is that God wants of me, he’s not asking me to despair.

I take a deep breath. I consciously set aside my budding sense of hopelessness. Before I utter another word, before I offer to make someone a meal, before I do anything, I need to redirect my heart:

Lord, guide my thoughts: Keep them focused on your will.
Lord, guide my lips: Let my words be the ones you want me to speak.
Lord, guide my hands: Show me how you would have me serve.

God puts troubled people in our paths because he’s trusting us to pray and care for them as he would. That’s an honor, not a burden.

Devotion for a Busy Day

May the favor of the Lord our God rest upon us; establish the work of our hands for us—yes, establish the work of our hands. Psalm 90:17 (NIV)

Spring has sprung in New York City, or more accurately pounced, with temperatures predicted to reach the eighties today and the nineties tomorrow. Debates about global warming aside, that’s more like summer. Just last week the temperatures were dipping into the thirties at night, and folks were bemoaning what a cold spring we were having. My wife Julee left me a note on the fridge this morning, reminding me to clean the air conditioner filters.

Today I have a lot to do (in addition to those filters): Go to the gym, take winter clothing to the cleaners for storage (closet space is at a premium in New York City), pick up a few things for a business trip on Monday, pay bills (least favorite chore), take Millie to dog park (most favorite chore) and pick up dog food (Millie’s favorite chore), shop for groceries, drop car off for servicing. And since I haven’t gotten to any of them yet, I’m feeling a sense of urgency verging on panic.

Yet in this season of getting things done, taking a minute to give thanks for the blessing of a busy day is not a bad idea. Yes, we all feel overwhelmed and hopelessly behind at times. There are moments when I feel I will never catch up. But the fact that there is so much for me to do, that my days are so packed with life is a gift, a form of grace.

As hectic as things sometimes seem, God, let me never forget that You are always at the center of my day. Thank You for the gift of being busy.

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Develop Unshakable Confidence

For you have been my hope, O Sovereign Lord, my confidence since my youth. From birth I have relied on you. Psalm 71:5–6

What do you rely on to give you confidence? Your skills, your degrees, your accomplishments? What about when you sense a call to do a task for which you feel unqualified? Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Who am I to ______ [lead this group, start this ministry, supervise these employees, organize this fundraiser, teach these children . . .]?” Have you ever thought, “You picked the wrong woman for this job, Lord”?

If we rely on ourselves, we will not be qualified for that which God calls us. In fact, throughout Scripture we see that God often chose people who felt unqualified for the tasks God laid before them: Abraham, Sarah, Moses, David, Esther and Mary all felt unequal to the task.

But if God can use a roaming Bedouin to birth a nation, a stuttering speaker to confront Egypt’s pharaoh, a shepherd boy to lead a nation, an exiled Jewish girl to rescue her people and a timid teenager to bear the Son of God, then God can use us! The critical question isn’t, “Can I do this?” The better question is, “Can God do this through me?” The answer is a resounding “Yes!”

When the psalmist asked God to be a refuge and rescuer in Psalm 71, he boldly proclaimed his dependence upon the Sovereign Lord. The psalmist knew that every breath he had taken had occurred because God had given it. Throughout his lifetime he had been dependent on God.

When we feel weak-kneed and lack confidence, we are most open to relying on God. The Bible gives us affirmation after affirmation of God’s strength in the face of our limited ability: “I can do everything through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13). “Nothing is impossible with God” (Luke 1:37). “Nothing is too hard for [the Lord]” (Jeremiah 32:17). “In all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us” (Romans 8:37). “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9). Nothing silences the voice of timidity as powerfully as the voice of Scripture.

So if you find yourself in a new situation today, make sure you don’t rely on your own limited talents or skills, but that you place your unshakable confidence in the limitless God.

Reflection

  1. On what or on whom do you tend to rely when feeling out of your comfort zone?
  2. Is there an area in your life in which God might be calling you to move out in faith? What fears do you have about that situation?
  3. How does the psalmist’s reliance on God in Psalm 71 encourage you and renew your confidence in God’s ability to help you?

Related Readings

Exodus 3:1–15

Joshua 1:1–9

Luke 1:26–38

2 Corinthians 3:4–6

2 Timothy 1:7–12

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Daily Reflection: Finding God in a Tree House

Lord, you have been our dwelling place throughout all generations. —Psalm 90:1 (niv)

We had a tree-housewarming celebration last Sunday afternoon. Seven grandchildren, three sets of parents, my husband, Lynn, and I circled the trunk of a tree in the waning sunshine as my son Derek pounded the final nail in the wooden structure he’d been constructing for the past several weekends. We took pictures and gave loud cheers for the tree-house builder.

I grew up on this land, and when I was a child, my grandfather built a tree house in a huge cottonwood tree at the bottom of the hill below our house. A farmer owned the property, but he was happy to have a tree house there because nobody lived anywhere near that tree—except a bunch of cows.

That tree house became my place of sacred solitude. I remember lying on my back on the planks of wood and looking up through the huge green leaves at the panorama of sky. I’m sure that’s where I learned how quickly clouds can change shape and move across the sky. It’s also where God became real to me. I felt His nearness and I didn’t have to use words to talk to Him. I believed He could hear me and He cared about me. No wonder I went to the tree house when I felt lonely or sad.

When our children were growing up on the same land, they, too, visited the tree house, but eventually the land was sold and new homes sprouted up. New children discovered the tree house, and over time, the boards in the branches of the tree disappeared.

So as I stood, looking up at this new tree house, I prayed that it might become the same kind of place for some of these grandchildren as the old one had been for me: a place to look up at the sky and realize, maybe for the first time, that God is real.

Father, bless this tree house and all the sacred places where we discover ourselves in You.

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Daily Devotion: Weed Worry from Your Life

“The seed that fell among the thorns represents others who hear God’s word, but the message is crowded by the worries of this life, the lure of wealth, and the desire for other things, so no fruit is produced.” Mark 4:18–19

I love to garden. Weeding—not so much. However, weeding is an essential part of gardening. Weeds grow right next to my tomatoes or flowers, and if left alone, will eventually cause destruction. Weeds hinder the growth of what is good in a garden. Unchecked, they’ll keep a garden from being fruitful.

Jesus said that the seeds of truth He plants in our hearts get crowded out by worries, as well as by our desire for wealth or our desire for more stuff. I can say I don’t desire wealth, but the fact is, I wish we had a little more. Not a lot, you understand. Just a bit more.

Further, in a random hour of almost any day, I probably have a dozen worries flit through my brain. I don’t consciously decide to worry; in fact, I try not to. But still, the cares of this life march right on through: How will we manage to pay for college? Will my husband find a new job? Are my kids on the right track? Did I say the wrong thing to a friend? Will I meet the deadline for this project?

READ MORE: SEE CHALLENGES AS OCCASSIONS FOR JOY

Jesus is the only one who can give me the fruitful life I long for. I cannot get it by trying harder, but rather by opening my life to Him, letting Him eradicate the weeds of worry and covetousness, while cultivating contentment and trust. Ironically, the way to cultivate contentment is to simply stop trying so hard. Trust grows when we surrender to Jesus.

Faith Step: What unhealthy worries and desires for stuff or wealth are crowding out growth in your life? Are you willing to let God pull those weeds from your life?

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Daily Devotion: Turn Gripes to Gratitude

Do all things without complaining and disputing. —Philippians 2:14

I arrived at church for a planning meeting with two toddlers in tow. In the narthex, one broke free and ran off, while the other clung to my legs, whining.

Pastor Miller came out to greet us with a warm smile. “How are you today?”

I huffed a strand of bangs out of my eyes and winced against a growing headache. “The kids are running me ragged.”

His eyes twinkled. “But isn’t it wonderful that they can? How difficult to be a parent with a child too ill to run and play.” I absorbed that new perspective.

So many of the challenges I complained about were only in my life because of much greater blessings. Could I shift my focus to them and spend a little less time on the complaining?

In the coming days, it became a bit of a contest for me. Each time I heard myself protest about something, I looked for the blessing I was missing. The car stalled out on a cold morning, but that problem only existed because we had a car and didn’t need to take a bus to work.

My calendar stressed me out with a packed schedule, but it was a gift that we all had the health to participate in so many events. My husband had to work late, but the fact that he had a job was a blessing. Piles of laundry, dishes to wash and bathrooms to clean were no longer a reason to complain but a chance to thank God for the bounty in my life.

Heavenly Father, thank You for all the gifts You’ve poured into my life. When my day feels difficult, help me notice the blessing behind the challenge and turn my complaints into praise.

Daily Devotion: Things I Want to Read Again

I have rejoiced in the way of thy testimonies…. —Psalm 119:14

One day I was just plain blue, so I went to a folder labeled “Things I Want to Read Again.’’ On a piece of notebook paper half covered with stickers of butterflies, little bears and flowers was “Happy Hop Hop Day! Here’s a name poem for Momma:

P-recious and dear to her family though her
A-ccent is so Southern! She was just made
M-om of the year!”

Other times, I reach for my folder when I need purpose, inspiration or just a good chuckle. There’s a “Prayer for Children” by Ina Hughs that reminds me to pray for children “whose pictures aren’t on anybody’s dresser.” There’s a newspaper article quoting our son Brock as an investment expert and a funny note from my husband David thanking me for cooking chili for a long-ago meal at church.

I hope ideas for your own folder are forming in your head. But even if you never get around to organizing your favorite writings, there’s another source of “Things I Want to Read Again.”

The Bible is chock full of adventure and intrigue, pithy quotes, sound advice, and plenty of reassurance from the One Who loves you most. Open it now. You’ll be glad you did.