\u201cThere\u2019s always a new beginning.\u201d<\/p>\n
That\u2019s the message in the first major studio album from Stars Go Dim, according to singer Michael Cleveland. Now in stores, the self-titled 14-track effort explores the power of hope in God, despite circumstances. Cleveland discovered the power of hope first-hand.<\/p>\n
In the early years of his marriage, the musician and his wife Natalie experienced multiple miscarriages.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve never had a worse feeling in my life then when those things were happening,\u201d he tells Guideposts.org. \u201cIt was just devastating.\u201d<\/p>\n
It was also very confusing. There was no reason the couple shouldn\u2019t have been able to carry a child to term. Both young, healthy adults, doctors were clueless as to why Cleveland and his wife continued to miscarry.<\/p>\n
In 2012, on their drive back home to Kansas City after spending Christmas with Cleveland\u2019s family in Oklahoma, his wife mentioned an idea the two had talked about while they were dating.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy wife said, \u2018You know, I really think this would be the right time to look at adoption; is that something you\u2019re open to?\u2019 \u201cI was like, \u2018Absolutely, I\u2019ve been open to this for years.’”<\/p>\n
For the rest of the three and a half hour trip, as Cleveland drove, his wife researched everything she could on the adoption process in their home state. They began taking state mandated classes, meeting other hopeful parents-to-be and forming a community of people to support them on their journey.<\/p>\n
\u201cOnce a kid reaches three years old, their adoption chances drop significantly,\u201d Cleveland learned while researching adoptions in Kansas. \u201cIf they\u2019re a sibling set, [it\u2019s unlikely] they\u2019ll ever be adopted.\u201d Upon learning this, the Clevelands felt called to adopt older children and hopefully siblings.<\/p>\n
The pair thought it would be years before they could add to their family, but a few months after they finished their adoption classes, they received a call. Two sisters, four and five years old, needed a home. Their mom had left when the youngest was born and their father was in and out of prison.<\/p>\n
On Father\u2019s Day 2013, Cleveland and his wife picked the girls up from the foster home they\u2019d been living in, went before a judge and, the next evening, brought their daughters home to have dinner as a family for the first time.<\/p>\n
Adjusting to their new life wasn\u2019t easy.<\/p>\n
The girls came from an abusive past where they would often be left for days with no food and no one to take care of them. \u201cWe had no idea what we were doing,\u201d the singer said.<\/p>\n
At the suggestion of a family therapist, Cleveland and his wife came up with a way to make their new daughters feel safe, loved and in control of their environment.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe gave them giant Ziploc baggies full of cereal that they could hold on to,\u201d Cleveland says. \u201cWith most kids, you give them a giant bag of Fruit Loops and they\u2019re going to just devour it. But the girls never opened it. They were so afraid that the next meal may not come. It just became this security thing for them.\u201d<\/p>\n
Cleveland\u2019s wife took one of the walls in the family\u2019s kitchen and turned it into a chalkboard where she planned meals for each day of the week. Once the girls began to trust that the Clevelands would be taking care of them and their meals, they felt comfortable and confident in their new home. <\/p>\n
Two years later, the couple learned the happy news that they were expecting a new baby. Fearful that they would miscarry again, Cleveland and his wife held onto the news for months.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t think I\u2019ve ever prayed like that in my life,\u201d the singer says. \u201cWe had gone through this so many times we didn\u2019t want to get attached to a baby we weren\u2019t ever going to see.\u201d<\/p>\n
Thankfully they were blessed with a healthy pregnancy and the birth of another beautiful little girl. It\u2019s given Cleveland\u2019s older daughters the chance to truly feel a part of a family unit.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen we got them, the word \u2018family\u2019 had such a bad connotation to them,\u201d Cleveland says. \u201cWe don\u2019t really use the word \u2018family\u2019 at our house. Instead we talk about being on Team Cleveland, that being on Team Cleveland is a great place to be. There\u2019s no getting off of Team Cleveland.\u201d<\/p>\n
And the musician admits, as wonderful as the success of his band and their music is, nothing measures up to the value his \u201cteam\u201d brings to his life.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m so appreciative and honored to be out on tour and to get to do the things we\u2019re getting to do,\u201d Cleveland says. \u201c[But] other than Jesus Christ Himself, there is nothing more important to [me] than [my] wife and kids.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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