Wow, it\u2019s so easy to get our feelings hurt, isn\u2019t it? We overhear something someone said (or what we think they said), or we feel left out, or we aren\u2019t treated as we would like, and it slams us in the heart.<\/p>\n
A misunderstanding doesn\u2019t feel good, either on the receiving end or the giving end. I\u2019ve experienced both. But I\u2019ve learned some things about handling misunderstandings: <\/p>\n
1.<\/strong> I need to be the grown-up. Wearing my feelings on my sleeves just makes it easy for them to get in the way of real communication.<\/p>\n 2.<\/strong> Misunderstandings are usually just that, and when I make the effort to talk with the other person about it, it\u2019s often an easy fix.<\/p>\n 3.<\/strong> I need to ask God, \u201cDo I have the right attitude or do I need to change something? Sometimes the problem isn\u2019t the other person\u2026it\u2019s me.<\/p>\n 4. <\/strong> I can\u2019t let misunderstandings go unresolved. Otherwise, something that started out the size of a pebble can end up as big as the Grand Canyon. <\/p>\n 5.<\/strong> It\u2019s best to go to the person directly. Third party conversations about someone else just muddy the waters and make it harder to clear things up.<\/p>\n 6.<\/strong> Pray for wisdom about how to handle the situation in a Christ-like manner.<\/p>\n 7.<\/strong> Show love like Jesus does\u2014no matter what.<\/p>\n 8.<\/strong> Ask God to help me see others as He does.<\/p>\n 9.<\/strong> Forgive\u2026even when forgiveness isn\u2019t requested.<\/p>\n 10.<\/strong> I can\u2019t become bitter. That only hurts me.<\/p>\n 11.<\/strong> Show grace, no matter who is right or wrong.<\/p>\n 12.<\/strong> Turn the other cheek. Go the extra mile. And make restitution when it\u2019s merited \u2026 and sometimes even when it isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n I\u2019m a representative of God, and through my actions toward others, I can be His witness. I never want to stand between God and His message. How about you?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Wow, it\u2019s so easy to get our feelings hurt, isn\u2019t it? We overhear something someone said (or what we think they said), or we feel left out, or we aren\u2019t treated as we would like, and it slams us in the heart. A misunderstanding doesn\u2019t feel good, either on the receiving end or the giving […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":116,"featured_media":28968,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"ep_exclude_from_search":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[225],"tags":[46,55,27],"ppma_author":[474],"class_list":["post-20599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-advice","tag-friends","tag-inspiration","tag-positive-thinking"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n