{"id":21081,"date":"2026-03-11T10:29:44","date_gmt":"2026-03-11T10:29:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/uncategorized\/a-man-of-faiths-last-great-lesson\/"},"modified":"2026-04-10T06:11:26","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T06:11:26","slug":"a-man-of-faiths-last-great-lesson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/positive-living\/health-and-wellness\/caregiving\/hope-and-inspiration\/stories-of-hope-for-caregivers\/a-man-of-faiths-last-great-lesson\/","title":{"rendered":"A Man of Faith&#8217;s Last Great Lesson"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My dad loved to sing and loved any meal that brought our family together. He loved boats and the beach and being outdoors. He loved God, and his prayers were filled with gratitude.<\/p>\n<p>He taught me how to spell my name in Morse code, to play pool and ping-pong, to bait a fish hook, but the important things he taught me were by his example. He was compassionate, caring and respectful. I never heard him say a negative word about another person. What a lesson that was.<\/p>\n<p>Dad is 81 now. His once-brilliant mind has been ravaged by dementia. He doesn\u2019t know my name. He rarely says two sentences in a row that make any sense.<\/p>\n<p>And yet without words he is still teaching me one of the most important lessons of all: how to trust God in the smallest moments, how to see that God is still present and working through all of us, even now, even on those days when I don\u2019t understand a thing my father is saying except the word \u201cbeautiful.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad was a respected radiation oncologist. He trained and taught at MD Anderson in Houston, Texas, and has spent most of his life in Nashville practicing at Vanderbilt, Nashville Memorial and St. Thomas hospitals.<\/p>\n<p>His main work was at Park View\/Centennial, which opened the Sarah Cannon Cancer Center, named for one of his patients.<\/p>\n<p>When I first started my singing career, people recognized my name because of his accomplishments.<\/p>\n<p>They would come up to me and say, \u201cYour father is such a wonderful doctor. He treated my mother a couple of years ago and it made such a difference. He has a wonderful bedside manner. It gave us so much confidence and hope. We\u2019ll never forget him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Today he doesn\u2019t remember what happened an hour ago, let alone five minutes ago. He\u2019ll launch into a nonsensical conversation with disjointed phrases and I\u2019ll hold his hand, listening. He had a beautiful voice\u2014still has\u2014but he\u2019s lost all the words to the hymns he taught me, the ones we sang together.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019ll sing one to him and he\u2019ll pick up the tune, but if I stop, he\u2019s lost again, as if the notes just fall off the page.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy?\u201d I\u2019ve asked time and again, along with my three sisters. Why did this happen to this vibrant, intelligent, faith-filled man? Why did something like this happen to our mother too? There was no history of dementia in our family. Our grandparents didn\u2019t suffer from it. We had no roadmap.<\/p>\n<p>Mom and Dad were both in their seventies when the first telltale signs appeared\u2014a little forgetfulness, a little repetition. But wasn\u2019t that normal with age? I forget things all the time. It can be a nagging fear if you don\u2019t wrestle it to the ground.<\/p>\n<p>With Dad the confusion grew worse, then the erosion of cognition. I was visiting my parents late one evening on a break during a concert tour. My mom was wrapped up in a robe, a blanket around her feet. There was sweetness in our time together.<\/p>\n<p>I stood up. \u201cMom, I\u2019ve got to go and get on the bus. They\u2019re waiting for me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAre you going somewhere?\u201d she asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, I have a concert in Detroit tomorrow night. A reunion tour with my old friend Michael W. Smith.\u201d \u201cOh, you sing?\u201d she said with a curious smile. \u201cWhat kind of songs?\u201d I swallowed the lump in my throat, overcome by the memories of all the songs I had played just for her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWould you sing something for me now?\u201d she asked wistfully.<\/p>\n<p>I started in on \u201cRevive Us Again,\u201d one of her favorite hymns. Halfway through I stopped, asking if she remembered it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo,\u201d she said, \u201cbut I love it. Keep going.\u201d I did until it was time to get on the bus. \u201cCan I go on the bus with you? Can I come too?\u201d she asked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot this time, Mom, but I\u2019ll be back.\u201d I kissed her good-bye and held it together until she was out of my sight.<\/p>\n<p>Mom had a type of dementia known as Lewy Body, which involved confusion and altered realities. The good news was that it was not a constant condition, which allowed us to connect with her on good days.<\/p>\n<p>But Dad\u2019s dementia became completely debilitating. His vocabulary disappeared. Even familiar objects he couldn\u2019t name\u2014a telephone, a seat belt, a fork.<\/p>\n<p>My sisters, Kathy, Mimi, Carol, and I have become a team, meeting with doctors and hiring caregivers (thank you, Dad, for all of your careful financial planning). Communication has been vital. My advice to every family going through this is to talk honestly with each other.<\/p>\n<p>The first elephant in the room was quietly retiring my dad\u2019s medical license and then not letting him drive. My sister Mimi and her husband, Jerry, moved in with Mom and Dad for a year, but they both work full-time so we still needed caregivers. We also had to explain things to Dad.<\/p>\n<p>The time came when we knew it was in our parents\u2019 best interest for them to sign papers giving us power of attorney and control of their affairs. On a day when they were having lunch with Walt, their trusted minister, my sisters and I joined them at the end of the meal with the necessary papers.<\/p>\n<p>My father turned to Walt. \u201cIs this the right thing?\u201d he asked, holding the pen. My mother, sitting beside him with her papers asked, \u201cAm I doing the right thing?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Walt\u2019s got a voice so comforting it\u2019s like thick caramel. \u201cCan you see this loving family around you?\u201d he said. \u201cCan you see how they care? You poured love and respect into your daughters for a moment like this. You can trust them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This reversal of roles, caring for the ones who had been so capable, is not easy. We would adjust to one change, one new wrinkle in this long downward slide, and then there\u2019d be something new, one more loss of function, and we\u2019d regroup.<\/p>\n<p>All my life I\u2019ve asked God to lead me to where he needed me. Again and again he\u2019s answered that prayer. But this time there were no easy answers.<\/p>\n<p>One night I opened up to a trusted friend, telling her of my frustrations, my confusion, my guilt, my sense of loss, my anger. She listened patiently, offering suggestions, lessons she had learned in the process of losing her own parents.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAmy, this is going to be the greatest walk of faith you\u2019ve ever had. You can\u2019t see the whole picture now, but each day you\u2019re going to have to trust God more than you ever have before.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Day by day you will find the inspiration you need and you\u2019ll see how God is present in each moment. Give yourself the freedom to laugh and cry.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And then came the words that changed everything: \u201cI know this is hard, but this will be the last great lesson you\u2019ll learn from your parents.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Mom\u2019s health was clearly fading. Out of the blue came the idea to bring her to our house to live with us. Mom moved into my daughter Millie\u2019s room for the last three weeks of her life.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t think we locked our front door that whole time. People kept coming and going, nurses, hospice workers, my sisters, their husbands, the grandchildren, friends. Anytime day or night, we could go sit with her, sing songs to her, hold her hand.<\/p>\n<p>A few days before she died, another inspiration hit me. <em>We should have a girls\u2019 night in, <\/em>I thought. <em>Now. <\/em>I called my sisters and said, \u201cCome over tonight. Bring ten phrases with you, things that will trigger a memory. Don\u2019t write down the whole story. The phrase should be enough to remind you of it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m the youngest, I can be bossy!<\/p>\n<p>For three and half hours we sat around Mom\u2019s bed and told stories. She never opened her eyes, but her breathing slowed as if she was hearing every word.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMom, this is how we remember you,\u201d we said. \u201cThis is how you showed us your love. These are the stories we tell each other and we\u2019ll tell the grandkids and great-grandkids. This was the difference you made in our life.\u201d Kathy, Mimi, Carol and I had that precious time with Mom and with each other.<\/p>\n<p>The next morning when the hospice nurse stopped by to check on Mom, she said, \u201cYour mom is in transition.\u201d In less than 24 hours she was gone.<\/p>\n<p>Recently I found an old video I had taken of Mom and Dad. I asked my mother three things she loved about Dad. She said, \u201cHis smile, his laugh, his voice.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When I asked my dad what three things he loved about Mom, he broke down and said, \u201cI never want to live one day without her.\u201d It\u2019s been 18 months since Mom passed away.<\/p>\n<p>These days my father lives in a one-bedroom apartment with round-the-clock care. It\u2019s working and we\u2019re very grateful to the people who are helping us, but I have to remind myself, it\u2019s only for now. Each day brings new challenges, each day is different.<\/p>\n<p>Not long ago I took Dad for a walk on the farm. We\u2019ve got an old log cabin in the back and I took him inside, made a fire and we sat there like two kids on a campout.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBeautiful,\u201d he said, one of his few words these days, at least one of the few I can understand. I guess if you are going to hang on to a short list of words, beautiful is a good one.<\/p>\n<p>When we were through, we went outside, stood there, arm in arm, totally present, letting a warm late winter sun bathe us. \u201cBeautiful,\u201d my father said. 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