{"id":21337,"date":"2026-03-11T10:57:43","date_gmt":"2026-03-11T10:57:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/uncategorized\/courtney-b-vance-relies-on-faith-family-in-caring-for-mother\/"},"modified":"2026-04-10T06:11:58","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T06:11:58","slug":"courtney-b-vance-relies-on-faith-family-in-caring-for-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/cat-tell-us-your-story\/celebrity-stories\/courtney-b-vance-relies-on-faith-family-in-caring-for-mother\/","title":{"rendered":"Courtney B. Vance on the Role of Faith and Family in Caregiving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This article originally appeared in the August 2016 issue of <\/em>Guideposts.<em> Courtney  B. Vance\u2019s mother passed away in 2017.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you need anything, Mom?\u201d I asked. My mother lay in the hospital bed we\u2019d set up when she moved into our guest house in Los Angeles three years before. She was motionless except for her eyes. She blinked to tell me no. Blinking her eyes and wiggling her foot to hit a bell have been her ways of communicating since she lost the ability to speak.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTry to get some rest,\u201d I said. I kissed her forehead and she blinked back at me, our code for \u201cGood night.\u201d I left her with her nurse and went to our house, only steps away.<\/p>\n<p>My wife was in bed already, quiet but not yet asleep. The world knows her as Angela Bassett, movie star. To me, she is simply <a href=\"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/post\/he-learned-to-see-his-wife-through-gods-eyes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">my beautiful wife<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Angela lost her own mother just two years ago. That made my mother\u2019s deterioration even harder for her to bear. We knew the end was inevitable. Mom has ALS, and that\u2019s not a disease you recover from.<\/p>\n<p>It was heartbreaking for my mother to end up so helpless when she\u2019d always been a helper. She was a librarian, involved in groups all over Detroit, our hometown\u2014literacy programs, homeless shelters, Habitat for Humanity, book clubs, a recycling center, and more.<\/p>\n<p>She was determined to pass that giving spirit on to my older sister, Cecilie, and me. Dad worked his way up at Chrysler from foreman to benefits administrator. He and Mom instilled their work ethic in us too.<\/p>\n<p>We were a lower-middle- class family. From an early age, Cecilie and I helped out\u2014doing chores, taking care of our dogs. My parents sacrificed to send me to Detroit Country Day School. My scholarship didn\u2019t cover everything. I needed a job every summer to contribute.<\/p>\n<p>I loved Country Day. I worked hard academically. I played football and basketball and ran track and was All State for all three. I was so grateful to have been given the opportunity to attend the school that I did everything you could volunteer for\u2014homeroom announcements, student council, choir. I wanted to succeed so I could help my parents the way they helped me.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/post\/lesley-stahl-the-blessings-of-grandchildren\/\"><em><strong>READ MORE: LESLEY STAHL ON THE BLESSINGS OF GRANDCHILDREN<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My goal was to go to Harvard. And I did. Sophomore year I got bitten by the acting bug and by junior year, I was a member of the Boston Shakespeare Company. I\u2019d get up at 5:00 a.m. for my work-study job delivering newspapers in Harvard Yard. I\u2019d go to classes, ride my bike into Boston for rehearsals, do shows at night and crash at my aunt\u2019s house.<\/p>\n<p>Then I\u2019d get up at 5:00 a.m. again and ride back to Cambridge to pick up my papers. Growing up, I had always tried to hide my emotions and put on a good face. Through acting, all of that changed. I learned to channel my emotions into a character, a scene. It was so freeing. I\u2019d discovered my gift.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t realize it then\u2014I was just taking my first tentative steps toward faith, drawn to church though I didn\u2019t quite understand why\u2014but through acting, God would bring me an even greater gift.<\/p>\n<p>A year after I graduated from Harvard, I was accepted into the master of fine arts program at the Yale School of Drama. In the spring of 1983, I went to visit the Yale campus, and there she was, Angela Evelyn Bassett.<\/p>\n<p>She was graduating that May. I wouldn\u2019t start school until fall. I had a meeting with a financial-aid officer, and then Angela and a couple of other students took me around.<\/p>\n<p>She and I met again when we were touring in August Wilson\u2019s Century Cycle plays together. She was in <em>Joe Turner\u2019s Come and Gone <\/em>and I was in <em>Fences. <\/em>We were both in serious relationships, and dating didn\u2019t even enter our minds. We became fast friends.<\/p>\n<p>Years later, when neither of us was seeing anyone, we went on a first date. It was a quiet disaster. Angela is shy, I\u2019m shy, and now that we weren\u2019t just hanging out as friends, we didn\u2019t know what to say to each other. It was a relief when the evening ended.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t run into her again until more than a year later. By then, I\u2019d given my life to the Lord. I\u2019d gotten baptized at a historic Harlem church that I\u2019d been going to whenever work brought me to New York. I didn\u2019t know the Bible then, or have any spiritual tools. Yet there I was being rinsed clean, given a fresh start. Amazing!<\/p>\n<p>I went to a play with a buddy. Angela was there with the mother of a mutual friend. We all chatted afterward. Our friend\u2019s mom needed her dog walked early the next morning. I volunteered to drop by first thing and take care of the dog. That really got Angela\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/post\/gary-sinise-on-giving-back-to-veterans\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>READ MORE: GARY SINISE ON GIVING BACK TO VETERANS<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The helping spirit that Mom and Dad had instilled in me Angela called a servant spirit (her great-grandfather was a preacher and her mother raised her and her sister to love God). She\u2019d admired that spirit in her sister\u2019s husband, but she\u2019d never found it with anyone herself. She wasn\u2019t used to someone doing for her the things that came naturally to me.<\/p>\n<p>This time around, Angela and I connected. We talked so long on our dates that we closed restaurants down. The more time we spent together, the more it struck her that I was always asking, \u201cWhat can I do? How can I help?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When she got a cold, I went straight to her house with my bag of health food. I took over her kitchen, grated some ginger, boiled it down, added honey and lemon, then served the elixir to her.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes we would just look at each other in awe and say, \u201cI\u2019ve been looking for the love of my life all this time and I can\u2019t believe it\u2019s <em>you<\/em>!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We were married in 1997, on a beautiful October day. The ring I slipped on Angela\u2019s finger has ABVGODCBV engraved on the inside\u2014to symbolize that the two of us will keep God at the center of our marriage.<\/p>\n<p>That commitment helped us work through the rough patches we had early on. When my career suddenly slowed down, for instance. There were months I wasn\u2019t working. I felt very insecure, as an actor and a man. Angela was strong for me then, just like I learned to be strong for her in her low moments.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/post\/misty-copeland-made-to-dance\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em><strong>READ MORE: MISTY COPELAND WAS MADE TO DANCE<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My career picked up again. I became a series regular on <em>Law &amp; Order: Criminal Intent, <\/em>and appeared in films and plays. Angela landed good movie and TV roles. In 2006, we became the parents of twins, a boy, Slater, and a girl, Bronwyn. A year later, our joint memoir, <em>Friends: A Love Story, <\/em>was published.<\/p>\n<p>Mom came to visit often. She, Angela and I had fun competing over who could help more. \u201cLet me do the dishes, Court.\u201d \u201cI\u2019ve got it, Mom.\u201d \u201cYou\u2019re our guest, Mama Leslie!\u201d\u2014that\u2019s what Angela calls my mother\u2014\u201cRelax, already!\u201d Everything was going well.<\/p>\n<p>Then Mom was diagnosed with ALS. At first her symptoms seemed manageable. Still, Angela was on her, saying, \u201cYou need to come live with us, Mama Leslie. The kids want to be with their nana.\u201d Mom, of course, refused, not wanting to be a burden.<\/p>\n<p>I was in denial. This couldn\u2019t be happening. My dad had died 20 years earlier, yet Mom had forged on. She was so full of life, even busier in retirement, helping others, than she\u2019d been in her working days.<\/p>\n<p>We went to visit her in Detroit. Mom had started slurring her words. Angela and I didn\u2019t want to embarrass her by mentioning it. Our six-year-old son was the one who spoke up\u2014\u201cNana, why are you talking funny?\u201d he asked\u2014and thank God he did.<\/p>\n<p>Mom moved in with us not long after that. Just in time. Soon she started to lose the ability to speak and move.<\/p>\n<p>Even with around-the-clock nursing care, I needed time to help my mother, to do for her what she\u2019d always done for me. Angela gave me that time, so the rhythm of our family wasn\u2019t disrupted.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, the kids, who are 10 years old now, are learning what it means to be a helper, just like their nana. They go sit with her, talk to her, make her laugh. She can still laugh. We try to find the joy in life so we don\u2019t focus so much on the losses.<\/p>\n<p>Still, it\u2019s hard. It\u2019s been three years since she stopped being able to speak, and I\u2019ve forgotten the sound of my mother\u2019s voice. There\u2019s not much more that can be done for her except manage her pain.<\/p>\n<p>I understood why Angela has had such difficulty witnessing my mom\u2019s illness. Seeing her this helpless has made me fall to my knees and cry out to God. And that\u2019s what I told Angela that night in our bedroom. I sat next to her and took her hand.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know it hurts because Mom\u2019s not her old self. Spend time with her while you can. You\u2019ll want to be able to say you saw her through to the end.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Angela nodded. \u201cGod won\u2019t forsake us,\u201d she whispered, a tear winding down her cheek. I moved closer and kissed it away. The salt lingered on my tongue, reminding me that pain is part of life. The days that are rough, that I struggle, that\u2019s when I\u2019ve learned not to question God but to lean harder on his unchanging hand, his ever-present help.<\/p>\n<p><em>Did you enjoy this story? 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