{"id":21894,"date":"2026-03-11T11:59:21","date_gmt":"2026-03-11T11:59:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/uncategorized\/how-to-avoid-getting-mired-in-caregiver-guilt\/"},"modified":"2026-04-10T06:13:09","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T06:13:09","slug":"how-to-avoid-getting-mired-in-caregiver-guilt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/positive-living\/health-and-wellness\/caregiving\/how-to-avoid-getting-mired-in-caregiver-guilt\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Avoid Getting Mired in Caregiver Guilt"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cI should have \u2026 I shouldn\u2019t have \u2026 It\u2019s all my fault \u2026 I\u2019m no good \u2026\u201d \u00a0The caregiver guilt pit. It\u2019s an easy place to wind up, but you don\u2019t have to get stuck there.<\/p>\n

Given the often overwhelming responsibilities of caring for a loved one with a challenging condition, spiraling into self-blame is a common scenario. Yet caregivers have way more power over what they do with feelings of guilt than they may think, according to a geropsychologist who helps families get trustworthy and helpful information about common dementia struggles. Natali Edmonds, CEO of Dementia Careblazers<\/a>, told Guideposts.org that feeling guilt can be an important opportunity for reflection and positive change. The important thing is to reframe your thinking in order to move out of the guilt trap.<\/p>\n

\u201cMost caregivers are going to be caregivers for years,\u201d Edmonds said. \u201cSo you probably don\u2019t want to be struggling with guilt for years. You might experience it from time to time but it can be a great place to get great at feeling uncomfortable feelings. Emotions are a powerful indicator of what\u2019s going on in our minds, and as long as you think that the outside world dictates how you feel, you won\u2019t have any control over anything. But we have a lot of control over a lot of things, and I think gaining more awareness of the the thoughts inside of our minds that are leading to some of these feelings can be helpful.\u201d<\/p>\n

Edmonds offered the following tips to help family caregivers avoid getting mired in feelings of guilt:<\/p>\n

Remember that guilt stems from your thinking about a situation, not the situation itself. \u201c<\/strong>Guilt is a feeling and feelings come from our thoughts. No action, no situation in life actually leads to guilt. It is your thinking about the situation that leads to guilt. Let\u2019s say you have a family member who needs to go into a care facility. It\u2019s not putting your loved one into a care facility that leads to guilt. It\u2019s that you are thinking that you should have done something differently. Another person could be thinking something different, like, \u2018I\u2019m glad they\u2019re going to be able to have 24\/7 supervision and get the care that they need.\u2019 You could have 10 caregivers in the same exact situation and they would all feel differently because it has nothing to do with the situation. It has everything to do with their thinking about the situation. You can think about a situation in ways that disempower you, that bring you down and that lead to guilt, or you can think about a situation in a ways that are going to empower you, make you feel confident and help you feel reassured that you\u2019re making the right decision. Both are equally optional, both are equally available, but most people go to the option of guilt because that is easier for our brains. Our brains have a negativity bias, as we call it in psychology. So you have to do some work and put some effort into realizing that. When your brain offers you that stuff, how do you want to purposefully think about it instead?\u201d<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t view your caregiving in terms of how your loved one is progressing.<\/strong> \u201cA lot of people talk about guilt but not a lot of people talk about why are we feeling guilty and what can we do about it. There\u2019s a lot of attention on the problem but very little attention on the solution. You might be caring for a family member who has an illness that is going to get worse, no matter how amazing your care. Sometimes caregivers wrap up how they\u2019re doing based on how their loved one is doing. That\u2019s not fair because you could be doing the most amazing things in the world and the disease will just progress, no matter what. So you have to make sure you\u2019ve separated what you\u2019re doing from how your loved one is progressing.\u201d<\/p>\n

Treat yourself as you would someone you care about. \u201c<\/strong>If you were to have a loved one or great friend come to you and say, \u2018Hey, I feel so guilty. I\u2019m struggling with this situation, this is happening and I just have all this guilt,\u2019 what would you say to that person? It\u2019s probably not going to be, \u2018Well, you should feel guilty. That\u2019s horrible. I can\u2019t believe you did that!\u2019 You would never say that to somebody you care about. You would be so supportive, you would be so kind, you would be so compassionate. You would let them know, \u2018You\u2019re trying your best, this is a hard situation, I\u2019m really sorry you\u2019re going through this.\u2019 Tell yourself the same exact things you would say to somebody you care about. We hold ourselves to things that you would never ever put on another person. The other thing is to realize that we don\u2019t have to beat ourselves up when we feel guilt. It brings on a whole other level of suffering when it\u2019s like, \u2018Oh, I\u2019m feeling guilty again and I\u2019m upset that I\u2019m feeling guilty again.\u2019 There is a lot to be said for just allowing ourselves to feel how we\u2019re feeling without beating ourselves up for feeling how we\u2019re feeling. Beating yourself up is never going to help you feel better. So if all you do is just allow yourself to be a human and feel all the emotions, you would be so far ahead of so many people and relieve a lot of suffering.\u201d<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t internalize your loved one\u2019s behavior. <\/strong>\u201cThe hardest part about dementia caregiving is that you sacrifice so much time, so much energy, so much love\u2014you do everything\u2014and the person with dementia may not be able to understand or acknowledge it at all. In fact, they may do the complete opposite, saying things like, \u2018You\u2019re holding me back, you\u2019re treating me like a child, you\u2019re trying to interfere with my life.\u2019 This is where having an understanding about the disease can really be helpful, so that you don\u2019t internalize, \u2018Wow I am doing awfully, I am horrible.\u2019 Instead, realize this is what the dementia process is doing to your loved one\u2019s brain, that this is how they are interpreting their reality.\u201d<\/p>\n

Allow yourself joy by focusing on the moment.<\/strong> \u201cWithholding sources of joy or pleasure from yourself does not somehow give the person you\u2019re caring for a better quality of life. Let\u2019s say you give yourself a chance to enjoy some sort of activity that your loved one can\u2019t enjoy with you. It\u2019s going to be natural for your mind to wander and think about that person and feel bad that they can\u2019t be there and can\u2019t enjoy it. That\u2019s okay. But when your mind goes there, realize that you can rob yourself of your opportunity for joy and pleasure that you\u2019re in right now by feeling guilty that you\u2019re doing something without your loved one, and that this in no way improves their situation. So when that wave of guilt comes over you, you can acknowledge that you are missing the person and then, using your five senses and a practice of mindfulness, come back into the moment. Focus on what you\u2019re hearing, what you\u2019re seeing, what you\u2019re feeling\u2014on the environment around you. So long as you\u2019re somewhere doing something without the person you\u2019re caring for, you might as well be doing it because no amount of feeling guilty and anxious and thinking about whatever is happening with that other person is going to have any impact on that other person.\u201d<\/p>\n

For more on ways to overcome common caregiver challenges, Edmonds posts weekly videos at:\u00a0https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/dementiacareblazers<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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