One of the deepest desires of human nature is to be well thought of, respected, loved. How do you gain the esteem of others? Jesus tells us the secret in John 13:34: \u201cAs I have loved you, so you must love one another.\u201d<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s how to gain the respect you crave:<\/p>\n
Give esteem, respect and love to other people.<\/strong> Never let people upset you. <\/strong> Put other people\u2019s needs on a par with your own<\/strong>. If we will do our part, God stands ready to do his. But he doesn’t go where he’s not invited. So the last and most important bit of advice I have to offer is three simple words: Ask him in<\/em>.<\/strong> If you do, you will be blessed. And if you share this blessing with others, you will be loved\u2026and respected.<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" One of the deepest desires of human nature is to be well thought of, respected, loved. How do you gain the esteem of others? Jesus tells us the secret in John 13:34: \u201cAs I have loved you, so you must love one another.\u201d Here\u2019s how to gain the respect you crave: Give esteem, respect and […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":61,"featured_media":29615,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"ep_exclude_from_search":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[339],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[629],"class_list":["post-21936","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-positive-thinking"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nIn this life we only get back what we give. Give hate to the world and you will receive hate. Cultivate an attitude of superiority and you will be treated with an attitude of superiority. Practice feelings of prejudice and ill will and contempt and that is what you will get back. The whole universe is an echo cavern. What you send out reverberates back to you. That is what Christianity teaches. \u201cA new commandment I give you: Love one another\u201d (John 13:34). That is the smartest, shrewdest, most subtle formula for abundant living that ever was created.<\/p>\n
\nIf somebody is rude to you, bothers you, does something unjust to you, you have to be the kind of person who won’t let himself become upset. If you can do this, gradually you will win over the people who have been attacking you, annoying you. You will gain their respect. It is not an easy thing to do, but it is a great thing and, with God\u2019s help, you can do it. \u201cIf it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone\u201d (Romans 12:18).<\/p>\n
\nThis is what Christ meant by loving your neighbor as yourself. Philippians 2:3-4 admonishes us to \u201cin humility consider others\u201d and to look \u201cto the interests of others.\u201dIf you do this, amazing pathways of service will open up to you. You may run into opposition. You may be laughed at. But the rewards of meeting a need, of righting a wrong, of improving your world far outweigh the possible risks or hazards.<\/p>\n