{"id":22916,"date":"2026-03-11T13:51:40","date_gmt":"2026-03-11T13:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/uncategorized\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/"},"modified":"2026-04-10T06:15:14","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T06:15:14","slug":"was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cMom, just give it a try.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My grown son Danny was on the phone from Colorado. \u201cFifty-five-year-olds don\u2019t do online dating,\u201d I said. \u201cWe meet people the old-fashioned way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHah!\u201d replied Danny. \u201cAnd how\u2019s that working out for you so far?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t want to date,\u201d I said. \u201cI have Walter.\u201d Walter was my rescued dog.<\/p>\n<p>Danny laughed again, then turned serious. \u201cIt\u2019s been 12 years since Dad died. You\u2019re all alone there in New Mexico. It would be good for you to meet people. Alexa\u2019s mom met someone on the internet, and now they\u2019re engaged.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Alexa was Danny\u2019s wife. Her father had died of cancer a few years earlier\u2014the same disease that took my Rick when he was just 44. Some days, I felt like I was finally coming out of my grief. Other days, it felt as if I\u2019d just lost him.<\/p>\n<p>Danny pressed on. \u201cThere\u2019s a good dating site for people over 50. The one Alexa\u2019s mom used. Why don\u2019t you give it a try? There\u2019s nothing to lose.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I changed the subject, but I couldn\u2019t help thinking about Danny\u2019s suggestion after we got off the phone. Life had been hard for a long time after Rick died. We\u2019d been high school sweethearts, and he was the love of my life. He was a park ranger\u2014strong, outdoorsy, fun. My kind of guy. Danny and his brother, Ben, were teens when Rick died. Ben especially had struggled, and only recently had he found his footing.<\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<h3>Uplifting Quotes to Cope with Grief<\/h3>\n<div class=\"embed\">\n\t\t\t\u200b<\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>I\u2019d kept things together while the boys were at home. As soon as they moved out, I drifted\u2014physically, emotionally and spiritually. I was too angry to pray. I\u2019m a schoolteacher, and I did an exchange year at a school in Australia, hoping a faraway place would put an end to my grief. It didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>At last, I decided to leave Estes Park, the Colorado mountain town I\u2019d called home ever since Rick was posted at Rocky Mountain National Park. Everybody there knew me as Rick\u2019s wife. Everything reminded me of my loss.<\/p>\n<p>I found a job at a charter school in Taos, New Mexico. I loved the landscape and thought I might meet other people like me. I rented a condo, made friends and joined a book group. I saw Danny and Alexa and their beautiful twin girls every few months.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually my anger at God cooled. I was praying again, though not quite the same as before. I was warier now. Less na\u00efve. Everything I\u2019d counted on in life had been taken from me once. I wasn\u2019t going to let that happen again.<\/p>\n<p>Not long after my conversation with Danny, my landlord announced she\u2019d decided to sell the condo I\u2019d been renting for the past three years. She asked if I wanted to buy it. Just as I was investigating whether I could afford the asking price, my principal told me my position at the charter school had been cut.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly I was out of a job and had 45 days to vacate the condo.<\/p>\n<p>Searching frantically online for a job and a place to live, I kept seeing the same ad pop up on my computer. For the dating website Danny had mentioned.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs this some kind of joke?\u201d I asked God. \u201cOr a sign?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Maybe if I signed up, the ads would go away. I filled out a profile, took a cursory look at some of the men\u2014<em>not <\/em>my type\u2014and forgot about it.<\/p>\n<p>But I began getting notices that men had looked at my profile and sent me a \u201cflirt\u201d\u2014a message. The site also suggested profiles I might want to look at. Curiosity got the better of me until I checked out the profiles and remembered why I didn\u2019t like online dating.<\/p>\n<p>One day, a notice popped up telling me someone had checked my profile. I clicked on the link, and the profile for a man named Steve appeared. He was better-looking than the other guys I\u2019d seen. He was also exactly my age.<\/p>\n<p>And he was a widower.<\/p>\n<p>Steve was selling his house near Denver and moving to a mountain home he owned an hour from Taos. <em>I bet I know why you\u2019re moving, <\/em>I thought, remembering my own journey here.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"colorbox\" href=\"https:\/\/d2zfkpu1r6ym98.cloudfront.net\/sites\/guideposts.org\/files\/lynne_nichols_vwbus2.jpg\" rel=\"gallery\" title=\"The vintage VW bus that brought\nSteve and Lynne together\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"The vintage VW bus that brought\nSteve and Lynne together\" height=\"208\" src=\"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/sites\/default\/files\/lynne_nichols_vwbus1.jpg\" style=\"float:right\" width=\"318\" \/><\/a>But one of his photos really caught my eye. It was of a vintage 1977 Volkswagen Bus. The kind with a pop-up camper top. Among Steve\u2019s hobbies were hiking, bicycling, camping and rock climbing. I caught myself feeling disappointed he hadn\u2019t sent me a flirt.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat looks fun!\u201d I commented beneath the photo. A couple of days later, I got an email from Steve. He liked that I\u2019d commented on his VW bus photo. He asked me more about myself. I wrote back, feeling embarrassingly excited. Steve replied right away. Soon we were corresponding. His emails became a welcome respite from job- and apartment-hunting.<\/p>\n<p>I hadn\u2019t realized how much I needed to talk to someone who understood what it was like to lose a spouse. Steve and I didn\u2019t dwell on our past marriages. But we recognized each other\u2019s feelings. Maybe Danny had been right. Maybe I needed to meet more people. Maybe this was a start.<\/p>\n<p>Steve and I were both huge Denver Broncos fans. He too loved the outdoors. He\u2019d been a paramedic but retired to take care of his wife when she was ailing from liver disease\u2014possibly a legacy of the Agent Orange she\u2019d been exposed to as a nurse in the Vietnam War. He\u2019d bought the VW bus recently as a way of reclaiming his outdoors life.<\/p>\n<p>Soon after Steve moved from Colorado, we decided to meet in person. We picked a Mexican restaurant in Taos for lunch. I laughed at myself as I agonized over what to wear. At last I settled on a white ankle-length skirt, a casual top and sandals. Very New Mexico. I brought Walter and left him in the car.<\/p>\n<p>I arrived first and sat at an outside table. I wanted to keep an eye on Walter. A yellow VW bus pulled into the parking lot. Steve got out and I caught my breath. It wasn\u2019t just that he was even more handsome than in his photos. A shock of recognition passed through me, as if I\u2019d known Steve for a long time and could trust him implicitly.<\/p>\n<p>Steve confessed he\u2019d been as nervous as a teenager to meet me. \u201cMe too!\u201d I said. Conversation flowed easily. We lingered long after we\u2019d finished eating. At last Steve said with a grin, \u201cWant to take a ride in the bus?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSure!\u201d I said. \u201cCan Walter come?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The three of us took a long afternoon drive. The bus chugged along steadily. I felt like we\u2019d barely started talking when Steve dropped me off.<\/p>\n<p>After that, things moved fast. Maybe too fast. Steve and I talked every day. We went to movies, dinner. Mostly we spent time in Taos, where I\u2019d found a small rental condo. Just a few weeks after our first lunch, my condo flooded from ruptured pipes. I had to move out.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy don\u2019t you stay at my house?\u201d Steve said. \u201cI\u2019m going to visit my family in Ohio for two weeks. You\u2019ll have the place to yourself.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I reassured myself there was nothing wrong with staying in Steve\u2019s house while he was gone. But I could see where this was headed. Even Danny cautioned me to take things slowly. And this had all been his idea in the first place!<\/p>\n<p>I put my things in storage, packed a bag and drove to Steve\u2019s house, feeling suddenly afraid. In just a few weeks, I\u2019d gone from not wanting to date to\u2026 what? The first steps toward marriage?<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t want to get married! I\u2019d done that already. Rick and I had loved our life together. Then it fell apart, and I\u2019d felt pain I\u2019d never known possible. Why would I risk that again? Steve\u2019s house was a mountain cabin surrounded by woods and a rushing stream. His taste in furniture matched mine. I told myself not to feel too comfortable. I barely knew this man. I was not committing to anything. We\u2019d met online. I could break this off whenever I wanted to.<\/p>\n<p>My first morning there, I was drawn by the sound of the stream. The water splashed down a hill, then rounded a bend beside a small meadow surrounded by old-growth aspen trees.<\/p>\n<p>I sat beside the stream, closing my eyes to say morning prayers. Part of me wanted not to like this place so much. Not to be so taken with Steve.<\/p>\n<p><em>Where is this going, Lord? <\/em>I asked. <em>Why am I so confused?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In an instant, all the years since Rick died passed though my mind. I felt the crushing weight of grief. The seeming impossibility of keeping things going for the boys. The loneliness. The spiritual drifting.<\/p>\n<p>And I heard a voice. <em>I was with you then. I am with you now.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As if washed away by the stream, my fears seemed to vanish. Yes, Steve and I were moving fast, but that was okay. It was even okay that I was already letting myself think about marriage. It was natural.<\/p>\n<p>In my grief, even when I was spiritually distant, God had remained at my side. He had guided me through those hard years, and he was guiding me now. I had no idea what the future held for Steve and me. But I did know God would be in that future. And that was enough.<\/p>\n<p>I sat for a long time listening to the wind in the aspen leaves. Then I got up and walked back toward the house.<\/p>\n<p>Next summer, Steve and I will get married. We continue sharing the life we\u2019ve made together. I decided to semiretire instead of teaching full-time. We spend half the year in New Mexico and half in Florida, where Steve has family. We kayak, camp, hike and spend lots of time just talking.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s an idyllic life. Still, having loved and lost before, Steve and I know our love is a risk. We also know it\u2019s a risk worth taking and that second chances are a rare blessing.<\/p>\n<p>And the yellow VW bus? We drove it back and forth across the country several times until age caught up with it. I was sad to see it go. But by that point, it had done its job. It had brought Steve and me together. We\u2019ll let God lead us on the rest of the journey.<\/p>\n<p><em>For more inspiring stories, subscribe to <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bit.ly\/guidepostssub\"><strong>Guideposts<\/strong><\/a> <em>magazine<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cMom, just give it a try.\u201d My grown son Danny was on the phone from Colorado. \u201cFifty-five-year-olds don\u2019t do online dating,\u201d I said. \u201cWe meet people the old-fashioned way.\u201d \u201cHah!\u201d replied Danny. \u201cAnd how\u2019s that working out for you so far?\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t want to date,\u201d I said. \u201cI have Walter.\u201d Walter was my rescued [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":30098,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"ep_exclude_from_search":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[341,185],"tags":[166,58,79,13,30],"ppma_author":[778],"class_list":["post-22916","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-living-longer-living-better","category-stories-of-faith-and-hope","tag-grief","tag-guideposts","tag-healing","tag-love","tag-prayer"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v26.6 (Yoast SEO v27.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Was This Widow Ready to Love Again? - Guideposts Articles<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again?\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u201cMom, just give it a try.\u201d My grown son Danny was on the phone from Colorado. \u201cFifty-five-year-olds don\u2019t do online dating,\u201d I said. \u201cWe meet people the old-fashioned way.\u201d \u201cHah!\u201d replied Danny. \u201cAnd how\u2019s that working out for you so far?\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t want to date,\u201d I said. \u201cI have Walter.\u201d Walter was my rescued [&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Guideposts Articles\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2026-03-11T13:51:40+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2026-04-10T06:15:14+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"http:\/\/articles.guideposts.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"1540\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"866\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Lynne Nichols\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Neeraj Rai\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/f0862e0bfb5f72f571ea4d005001f0be\"},\"headline\":\"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again?\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-03-11T13:51:40+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2026-04-10T06:15:14+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":1831,\"commentCount\":0,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/03\\\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg\",\"keywords\":[\"Grief\",\"Guideposts\",\"healing\",\"Love\",\"Prayer\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Living Longer, Living Better\",\"Stories of Faith and Hope\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/\",\"url\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/\",\"name\":\"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again? - Guideposts Articles\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/03\\\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-03-11T13:51:40+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2026-04-10T06:15:14+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/03\\\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/03\\\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg\",\"width\":1540,\"height\":866},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"http:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/inspiring-stories\\\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\\\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\\\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Positive Living\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/positive-living\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":3,\"name\":\"Health and Wellness\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/positive-living\\\/health-and-wellness\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":4,\"name\":\"Living Longer, Living Better\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/positive-living\\\/health-and-wellness\\\/living-longer-living-better\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":5,\"name\":\"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again?\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/\",\"name\":\"Guideposts Articles\",\"description\":\"Strengthening Faith. Providing Hope.\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Guideposts Articles\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/gp-logo-white.svg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/gp-logo-white.svg\",\"caption\":\"Guideposts Articles\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\"}},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/f0862e0bfb5f72f571ea4d005001f0be\",\"name\":\"Neeraj Rai\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/18c0b5a06458f26c764f5a7451f1774cfb282943f2f36a00c9a801809489005c?s=96&d=https%3A%2F%2Fgpbookstore.org%2Farticles%2Fwp-content%2Fthemes%2Fguideposts%2Fassets%2Fimages%2Fdefault-avatar.png&r=gc7d9b87677b7a32d038be4d79f46df21\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/18c0b5a06458f26c764f5a7451f1774cfb282943f2f36a00c9a801809489005c?s=96&d=https%3A%2F%2Fgpbookstore.org%2Farticles%2Fwp-content%2Fthemes%2Fguideposts%2Fassets%2Fimages%2Fdefault-avatar.png&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/18c0b5a06458f26c764f5a7451f1774cfb282943f2f36a00c9a801809489005c?s=96&d=https%3A%2F%2Fgpbookstore.org%2Farticles%2Fwp-content%2Fthemes%2Fguideposts%2Fassets%2Fimages%2Fdefault-avatar.png&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Neeraj Rai\"},\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/gpbookstore.org\\\/articles\\\/author\\\/neeraj\\\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO Premium plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again? - Guideposts Articles","robots":{"index":"noindex","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again?","og_description":"\u201cMom, just give it a try.\u201d My grown son Danny was on the phone from Colorado. \u201cFifty-five-year-olds don\u2019t do online dating,\u201d I said. \u201cWe meet people the old-fashioned way.\u201d \u201cHah!\u201d replied Danny. \u201cAnd how\u2019s that working out for you so far?\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t want to date,\u201d I said. \u201cI have Walter.\u201d Walter was my rescued [&hellip;]","og_url":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/","og_site_name":"Guideposts Articles","article_published_time":"2026-03-11T13:51:40+00:00","article_modified_time":"2026-04-10T06:15:14+00:00","og_image":[{"width":1540,"height":866,"url":"http:\/\/articles.guideposts.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Lynne Nichols","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/"},"author":{"name":"Neeraj Rai","@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#\/schema\/person\/f0862e0bfb5f72f571ea4d005001f0be"},"headline":"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again?","datePublished":"2026-03-11T13:51:40+00:00","dateModified":"2026-04-10T06:15:14+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/"},"wordCount":1831,"commentCount":0,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg","keywords":["Grief","Guideposts","healing","Love","Prayer"],"articleSection":["Living Longer, Living Better","Stories of Faith and Hope"],"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/","url":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/","name":"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again? - Guideposts Articles","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg","datePublished":"2026-03-11T13:51:40+00:00","dateModified":"2026-04-10T06:15:14+00:00","breadcrumb":{"@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/lynne_nichols_marquee-1.jpg","width":1540,"height":866},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"http:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/inspiring-stories\/stories-of-faith-and-hope\/was-this-widow-ready-to-love-again\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Positive Living","item":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/positive-living\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":3,"name":"Health and Wellness","item":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/positive-living\/health-and-wellness\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":4,"name":"Living Longer, Living Better","item":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/positive-living\/health-and-wellness\/living-longer-living-better\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":5,"name":"Was This Widow Ready to Love Again?"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#website","url":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/","name":"Guideposts Articles","description":"Strengthening Faith. Providing Hope.","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#organization","name":"Guideposts Articles","url":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/gp-logo-white.svg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/gp-logo-white.svg","caption":"Guideposts Articles"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"}},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/#\/schema\/person\/f0862e0bfb5f72f571ea4d005001f0be","name":"Neeraj Rai","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/18c0b5a06458f26c764f5a7451f1774cfb282943f2f36a00c9a801809489005c?s=96&d=https%3A%2F%2Fgpbookstore.org%2Farticles%2Fwp-content%2Fthemes%2Fguideposts%2Fassets%2Fimages%2Fdefault-avatar.png&r=gc7d9b87677b7a32d038be4d79f46df21","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/18c0b5a06458f26c764f5a7451f1774cfb282943f2f36a00c9a801809489005c?s=96&d=https%3A%2F%2Fgpbookstore.org%2Farticles%2Fwp-content%2Fthemes%2Fguideposts%2Fassets%2Fimages%2Fdefault-avatar.png&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/18c0b5a06458f26c764f5a7451f1774cfb282943f2f36a00c9a801809489005c?s=96&d=https%3A%2F%2Fgpbookstore.org%2Farticles%2Fwp-content%2Fthemes%2Fguideposts%2Fassets%2Fimages%2Fdefault-avatar.png&r=g","caption":"Neeraj Rai"},"url":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/author\/neeraj\/"}]}},"authors":[{"term_id":778,"user_id":0,"is_guest":1,"slug":"lynne-nichols","display_name":"Lynne Nichols","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=https%3A%2F%2Fgpbookstore.org%2Farticles%2Fwp-content%2Fthemes%2Fguideposts%2Fassets%2Fimages%2Fdefault-avatar.png&r=g","0":null,"1":"","2":"","3":"","4":"","5":"","6":"","7":"","8":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22916","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22916"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22916\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30098"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22916"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22916"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22916"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpbookstore.org\/articles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=22916"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}