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7 Life Lessons ‘The Golden Girls’ Taught Us
The Golden Girls gave us many gifts – that catchy opening theme song, iconic 80’s Miami fashion moments, Betty White – but it also taught us some valuable life lessons delivered with a dose of humor.
After 30 years, we still look back on The Golden Girls with more than a little fondness. After all, who didn’t want a group of friends like Blanche, Dorothy, Rose and Sophia? To celebrate the show’s milestone anniversary, let’s take the time to remember one of the many things it gave us: some inspiring life lessons.
1. Embrace each other’s differences.
The show’s entire premise revolved around the hilarity that ensued thanks to each of the character’s personalities. The ladies were polar opposites in almost every way — Blanche was the confident seductress; Dorothy was smart and sarcastic; Rose, optimistic and completely naïve and Sophia, the wise-cracking truth teller – but their individual relationships worked because after all of the hijinks, they respected and valued what they each brought to the table. Their friendship is a great lesson to all of us about the importance of looking past our own thoughts and prejudices in order to see someone’s truly unique worth.
2. Friendship is one of life’s greatest gifts.
The opening number pretty much sums it up, but in case it didn’t sink in, The Golden Girls is one big testament to the power of friendship. When romantic relationships failed and family members passed away, Blanche, Rose and Dorothy always had each other to lean on. It doesn’t hurt to have someone in your corner that knows the best and worst parts of you who’s also rooting for you to succeed.
3. Never be afraid to laugh at yourself …
Though the drama was rife on the show, it was a sitcom which meant plenty of opportunities to laugh at Rose’s tall tales of her days on the farm and Blanche’s dating antics. But what was always appealing about the series and its main characters was their willingness to laugh at themselves. Each woman didn’t mind taking the other down a peg or two – usually in good fun.
4. … Or to try something new.
Another running theme of the show is that of reinvention. Each of the women became roommates after living a full life and deciding to try something different. From new jobs to new boyfriends, retirement for them meant realizing long-shelved dreams and taking risks in order to find new purpose and meaning. Did everything work out perfectly? No, but they always learned something new along the way.
5. Have confidence in yourself.
It’s hard to pick a favorite amongst the girls, but if we were giving out awards, Blanche would definitely take home the title of “Most Confident.” The woman loved herself, knew her strengths – which were many – and played to them. Of course, overconfidence was a weakness of hers as well but Blanche’s ability to be unabashedly proud of herself and her accomplishments is a trait we should all aspire to possess.
7. The answer for any problem is cheesecake.
The greatest lesson of them all. If The Golden Girls taught us nothing else, it’s that any crisis, big or smal, can be solved with a an entire cheesecake shared amongst friends in the wee hours of the night.
7 Inspiring Quotes from Mister Rogers
Fred McFeely Rogers was an American television personality, musician, puppeteer, writer, producer, and Presbyterian minister. He is widely known as the host of the popular children’s series Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood and brought thoughtfulness and generosity to his lessons in each episode. Here are some inspiring quotes from the wonderfully talented Mister Rogers.
7 Inspiring Quotes from Michael J. Fox
Michael J. Fox is an actor, author, producer, and activist with a career spanning film and television. After being diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease in 1991, he created the Michael J. Fox Foundation for the degenerative illness. It has since become the largest nonprofit funder of Parkinson’s disease research in the world—investing more than $650 million in research to date. Here are some of our favorite positive quotes from the Parkinson’s disease activist.
7 Fun Facts About Mister Rogers
Fred Rogers, also known as Mister Rogers, remains a treasured icon thanks to his contribution to children’s television. Through his hit series, Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, the popular star, minister and educator promoted patience, good self-esteem and cooperation. Here we look back at some unknown, heartwarming facts about everyone’s favorite neighbor.
7 Angel Movies That Will Make Your Spirit Soar
From classics like It’s a Wonderful Life to comedies like The Preacher’s Wife, many movies have offered takes on what angels look like on earth. Here are seven of the best angel movies.
6 Tips for Having a Stress-Free Vacation
We are in the season known for time-off and rest. Let’s learn how to live with zest and delight and make this vacation the starting mark of a better life. Here are some tips to help you face this year’s vacation with a fresh spirit and perspective!
1. Approach each day in a glowing and hoping manner.
You will get glowing and hoping results. Start complaining, and you’ll find plenty to complain about. Start being thankful for each and every blessing, and your causes for thankfulness will multiply.
2. Decide to unload the mistakes and failures you made.
There can be no glorious optimism when you remind yourself: “I failed so many times, I did so many foolish things!”
3. Plan to go on this vacation without any secret guilt.
Get rid of it first. Make amends, if you can. Go with a clear slate.
4. Make time for you dear ones.
Draw nearer to those whom God has given you. All your busy year you miss intimate close talks and companionable hours. This vacation reclaim them.
5. Look with fresh light on nature.
See and enjoy again a remembered pleasure. Get close to nature, whether it’s for one hour or a day or a week…Enjoy the earth, air, sun, and flowers.
6. Vow to be released from anything that defeats you.
How can you be happy if you feel that there is some conflict within you, an everlasting ceaseless struggle? The Psalmist says, “Thou has put gladness in my heart.” It does no say, “I struggle for gladness until I achieve it.”
What is it that makes life a wonderful experience? What must you do to have gladness in your heart? You have to have a change of heart. Relearn the art of living. That’s your vacation this year!
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6 Heartwarming Movies Premiering This Holiday Season
Underneath the hustle and busyness, the holidays are all about spending time with those you love. And what better way to get some quality time with those who matter most than cuddling up with an uplifting movie? Whether your loved ones prefer princesses, Jedi or Mr. Rogers—there’s something for everyone to love this season.
6 Dolly Parton Recipes We Love
From butterscotch pie to pickled peaches and southern-style biscuits, here are a few Dolly Parton’s favorite recipes you’ll want to try at home.
6 Benefits of Exploring New Places
Discovering unfamiliar places can often be intimidating, but it’s also an adventure that offers many benefits. Whether you venture abroad or plan a cozy, local staycation, traveling gives you the opportunity to step away from your busy schedule to clear your mind and center yourself. Learning about new places can improve your physical and mental wellbeing, serve as an act of self-care, enhance your creativity and much more. Here are six benefits of discovery, near and far.
Improves mental health
It may come as no surprise to learn that exploring new places is good for your physical wellbeing, but did you know that it’s also good for your mental and emotional health? Traveling boosts happiness, satisfaction and keeps your brain active as you learn and explore new places, meet new people and live through new experiences. By taking advantage of the freedom that comes with traveling, you’re embracing a healthy, positive and optimistic mindset.
Introduces you to new people and cultures
The most enriching aspect of visiting new locations can be who you meet along the way. Introducing yourself to new people and places will deepen your understanding of other ways of life and the many cultures the world has to offer. By opening these doors and establishing new friendships, you’re developing a wider world view and becoming a more understanding and open-minded person.
Lets you disconnect from your daily life
Sometimes your mind and body need to rest and recharge. Traveling offers a great relief from the stress that comes from work and daily demands. A weekend trip or staycation can help you unwind and explore at a slow, relaxing pace. By taking a break from your daily responsibilities, you’re giving your body and mind some time to heal and rejuvenate.
Helps you step out of your comfort zone
New experiences can often bring forth new challenges. Exploring a city, state or country can be scary at first, but once you step out of your comfort zone, you’ll gain a renewed sense of strength and independence. Doing things differently from your daily activities will also help improve your productivity, gain problem-solving skills and build your confidence.
It’s an act of self-care
A calm, relaxing getaway may be just what you need to gain inner peace. Going on a leisurely walk in a new environment or having a relaxing day outdoors and taking in all that nature has to offer can help calm your mind and spirit. By living in the moment—taking in the warmth of the sun and the peaceful sound of nature—you’re recharging your mind, body and soul.
Enhances creativity
Traveling can teach you many things about a destination, including its history, people and languages, that a book simply can’t. When you engage with new cultures and people, you’re enhancing your creativity in the process. Immersing yourself in other people’s traditions, beliefs and real-life experiences will teach you new skills and insights, while sparking your creativity and interests.
5 TV and Film Heroes That Stand the Test of Time
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Anyone can be heroic, but it takes a certain person to stand up to injustices and do what’s right time and time again. Living by a set of virtues, heroes have a calling to make the world a better place. Innate protectors, they’re willing to step up when no one else will, concerned for the well-being of others. When times get tough, they persevere, relentless in their pursuits for justice.
1. THE EVERYMAN HERO: MATT DILLON — GUNSMOKE
While his towering stature may have you think otherwise, U.S. Marshal Matt Dillon (James Arness) has a peaceful nature. His job may be to uphold the law, but Dillon looks out for every person in town, good or bad. Patient and humble, he always acts in fairness and feels remorse when he has to use force. Although he is a man of few words, when he speaks, his kind and humorous spirit shines through.
Gunsmoke, weekdays at 7PM ET on INSP
2. THE LIONHEART HERO: VICTORIA BARKLEY — THE BIG VALLEY
Ahead of her time, Victoria (Barbara Stanwyck) is a woman living in a man’s world, but she never backs down and always comes out on the right side of justice. With her unwavering bravery, she’s tough while still being loving and empathetic. She steps up to run her family ranch with no hesitation and unselfishly fights for the little guy.
The Big Valley, weekdays at 9AM ET on INSP
3. THE LAWFUL HERO: WYATT EARP — WICHITA
Based on the real-life Western icon, Wyatt Earp (Joel McCrea), protects and serves as U.S. marshal of an unlawful town, even though his passions lay elsewhere. Wyatt’s willingness to sacrifice his own desires for the good of the town highlights the quality of his character. Fearless with a no-nonsense attitude, his duty to the law makes him truly a man of honor.
Wichita, April 10, 2021, at 8PM ET on INSP
4. THE ALL-AMERICAN HERO: JACOB MCCANDLES — BIG JAKE
Jacob McCandles (John Wayne) looks the part of a hero, but it’s his determination and grit that makes him admirable. McCandles knows he’s the only man to rescue his grandson from kidnappers and is diligent about bringing the boy home. Although he’s deeply invested in the outcome, McCandles is patient, composed, and doesn’t lets his emotions get the best of him.
Big Jake, May 1, 2021 at 8PM ET on INSP
5. THE TRAILBLAZING HERO: BASS REEVES — WILD WEST CHRONICLES
Sometimes fact is better than fiction. Real-life escaped slave turned hero, Bass Reeves, proves it. Reeves was the first black man to become a U.S. marshal. Reeves’ ingenuity, sincerity to help the helpless, humility and courage gained him the respect of everyone he knew. He worked tirelessly to take down the bad guys and make the streets safer for all.
Watch Bass Reeves and other history-making heroes in Wild West Chronicles, Sundays at 5:30PM ET on INSP, beginning April 11, 2021.
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5 Things You Didn’t Know About Kristin Chenoweth
Kristin Chenoweth has experienced success on the stage, in the movies, on TV, and as a recording artist. But here are five bits of insider info that even her fans might not be familiar with.
1. She is called Kris or Kristi by family and friends. Her given name is Kristi Dawn. She didn’t become “Kristin” until her musical theater teacher at Oklahoma City University, Florence Birdwell, suggested putting the “n” at the end of her first name to make it sound a bit more professional.
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2. She cherishes her pink leather Bible embossed with her name, a gift from her mom 20 years ago.
3. She was given a set of rosary beads by Martin Sheen when they were on The West Wing. “One day on set I was nervous about an upcoming flight. He went to his dressing room and came back with a rosary blessed by Pope John Paul II to carry with me when I travel. That he shared his faith with me was really special.” P.S. Check out Martin’s dramatic and inspiring 1986 Guideposts story.
4. She has a big sweet tooth. Her specialty: No Calorie Left Behind Butterfinger Pie. “Crush up six Butterfingers then stir into Cool Whip (12 oz.). Dump it all into a premade graham-cracker crust. Freeze. Devour.”
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5. She honors her heroes. For her album, Some Lessons Learned, Kristin wrote the song “What Would Dolly Do,” a tribute to her idol, Dolly Parton. “I just admire her career. And she’s nice to everybody. When I met her she told me, ‘Honey, you should play me!’”
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