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Praying for Strength

For I will restore health unto thee, and I will heal thee of thy wounds, saith the Lord. . . . (Jeremiah 30:17)

I had dinner with two of my friends from college, Mirielle and Debbie. We met at a Tibetan restaurant and started catching up. We were all struggling to make ends meet and figure out what to do with our futures, but I saw quickly that Debbie had even worse struggles.

As she looked over the menu, she reached into her purse and pulled out a large color-coded card. “What is that?” I asked.
 “It’s the list of foods I can’t eat,” she said. She’d recently been diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, and it was seriously restricting her diet.

Only a few minutes later, she mentioned something about a lump on her neck. Her doctor thought it was probably thyroid cancer. At our dismay, she tried to assure us that it would be no big deal to handle.

Then she started talking about her trip to Israel and was bursting with stories about visiting holy sites like the Wailing Wall; sharing in religious rituals; and having conversations with the Israelis she met, whom she thought were deeply spiritual people. Debbie had so much to feel victimized about, but all she wanted to talk about was how close she’d come to God.

Since that day, I’ve prayed for her health, but I’ve also prayed for myself. I’ve prayed for strength like Debbie’s, to appreciate God even when life is painful.

Thank You, God, for Your messengers who direct me back toward You.

Pray for Small Victories

Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.—Luke 18:1 (NIV)

I have a good friend who sometimes can barely get herself to leave her house or even answer the phone. Once, during a particularly bad bout, she let over six hundred unopened emails pile up in her in-box. Eventually, a mutual friend went over and helped her go through them. Later our friend told me, “ Her hand trembled on the mouse the whole time. Jenny was just terrified of doing anything.”

Jenny has a kind of paralysis caused by anxiety. What brings on that anxiety no one can say. She is very smart, usually quite independent, runs her own business and has a solid faith. Why, then, does she allow herself to be made prisoner by her own irrational fears?

I've tried to reason with her. That doesn't work, of course, since Jenny's problems are rooted deep in her psyche. So I resort to prayer, asking God to make Jenny better. Yet every time Jenny has another setback, I find myself more and more dismayed. Why aren't my prayers helping? Doesn't she want to get better?

The other day our friend mentioned that Jenny had been making progress, so I emailed her just to see. "I'm getting better,” she typed right back. How? "I've stopped asking God to fix me. Instead, I ask for help with the small things. 'God, help me get out of bed. God, help me brush my teeth and get dressed. God, help me walk out the door.' I stay focused on the next thing. Little victories.”

Sometimes it's the people we pray for who teach us how to pray. Now I pray for the small things too—not just for Jenny, but for myself. When we break down our problems for God, He helps us see them in perspective, which is itself often the most powerful answer to prayer.

Help me, Lord, to see that prayer is a process guided by You, not me, and meant to bring You into every moment of my life.

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Prayer for Today

So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’

—Matthew 6:31 NIV

It’s easy to get worked up about what might happen in the future: Will I have enough money to retire? Will I become ill? Yet all you need to do is ask for what you need today. As Jesus pointed out in Matthew, “Your Father knows what you need before you ask him” (Matthew 6:8). Trust God with your needs today, this day. That is enough.

Today’s Prayer:

Heavenly Father, help me face the future with courage, knowing that You have my needs covered today.

Pilot’s Devotional

“So get to work, and may the Lord be with you!”—I Chronicles 22:16 (tlb)

After Captain Chesley Sullenberger landed his commercial jet safely in the Hudson River a couple of years ago, he was interviewed by several reporters. One of them asked, “When you realized you were going down, did you pray?”

He hesitated. “I thought of nothing else but flying the plane.”

At first I was surprised by his answer, but the more I thought about it, the more I appreciated his honesty. As a pilot myself, I understand how much concentration it takes to fly a plane, even when there’s no emergency. When things go wrong, it’s time for action, not conversation.

Action is a kind of physical prayer, I think, and the airplane itself is a good example of how it works. On the ground, an airplane is the slowest and most awkward of creatures, hard to steer. But when it picks up speed and the wind hits the control surfaces, it suddenly becomes the most agile of all transports. You can steer it with the merest touch. Not until it gets into action can it be guided well.

Many kinds of prayer exist, all of them useful. There’s a place for the all-nighter, with tears. There’s a place for table graces and a time for the “flare prayer,” when you cry out, “Dear God, help me!” But there’s also a time for the wordless prayer, when you get up off your knees and get to work. When I do that, I can feel His wind beneath my wings.

Forgive me, Lord, but I can’t talk right now. I have a plane to fly.

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Pack Light for Life’s Journey

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ”Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy- seven times.” Matthew 18:21–22 (NIV)

I trudged through the airport looking for the right gate. My back already ached from handling the carry-on bag and the rolling briefcase. Why did I bring all this stuff?

I inwardly moaned. Since I’d needed to do some work during my visit to my daughter’s family, I had packed my heavy laptop and a few reference books. At the last minute, I’d tossed in my day planner. And of course, I simply had to have all the technology stuff, along with the necessary cords and chargers.

My carry-on bag bulged with an extra pair of shoes and clothes I hadn’t even worn—not to mention all the lotions and potions I could have done without. I couldn’t help casting envious glances at those people who walked by with a single tote bag or backpack slung over their shoulders.

The aches from dealing with heavy luggage are nothing compared to the injuries we cause ourselves by lugging around a different kind of baggage. Jesus wants to help us let go of the heavy burden of past hurts and wrongs that have been done to us. During Jesus’ day, Jewish rabbis taught that a person should forgive someone who wronged them, but only three times.

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Jesus introduced a revolutionary principle: forgiveness without limits. It’s hard to forgive someone who has hurt me; it’s also difficult to forgive myself for past mistakes and poor decisions. I can only cultivate a forgiving spirit by depending on Jesus moment by moment to help me make that conscious decision, and by remembering how much He has forgiven me.

Jesus knows that if I let go of the burden of unforgivingness, I’ll enjoy a lighter spirit, a peaceful mind, more energy, and healthier relationships. And I’ll know the freedom of packing light for my life’s journey.

Faith step: Whom do you need to forgive today—yourself or someone else?

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Moments of Grace

I still remember the feeling of near panic that gripped me when I was asked, more than 30 years ago now, to write “a couple of devotionals” for a new book, a collection to be called Daily Guideposts.

The book would be written, the letter from the editors explained, by a variety of authors. “We’re looking for personal experiences to help the reader grow in faith.”

What could I possibly write about? Maybe other authors would have inspiring events to share, but what did my workaday life have to offer?

Cudgeling my memory, I finally recalled once when an elderly neighbor helped me see that days spent diapering babies and preparing meals were more important than I knew. Maybe her words would help other young mothers.

For weeks no more ideas came. Then I remembered a time of deep hurt when I’d come across an apple tree with a huge lightning scar. The tree, still growing, still producing fruit, had spoken to me about keeping on, wounds and all.

Those experiences were the only two I could think of that could possibly have meaning for anyone else, and I wrote them up. But the following year, the request for devotionals came again. How would I ever come up with new ones?

A letter from a friend got me thinking about how I hadn’t liked her at first, and that the change had come not when she did something nice for me but when I did something nice for her. After that I met a bonsai grower whose work taught me something about relating both to plants and to people.

I began to keep an eye out for these little epiphanies and to jot down notes about them. A gum wrapper on the sidewalk. A withered Christmas wreath. A conversation overheard in a luncheonette. Each one, as I learned to pay attention, had some insight to offer.

Still, when I was asked to provide not three or four but 12 devotionals a year, it seemed impossible. Surely these grace-filled episodes could not keep coming! Nobody’s life is that spiritually filled.

But they do keep coming, as affirmed by Daily Guideposts readers themselves. When I did a series on 12 favorite hymns, an alto in a cathedral choir wrote about the spiritual side of preparing to sing: “I’ve learned that praying the words is as important as getting the notes right.”

When I recounted a year-long experiment of thanking God each day for something I’d never thanked him for before, I was overwhelmed by stories of readers’ own experiences of gratitude. The softness of a dog’s fur, a smile from a tired cashier, “all the spots in my body that don’t hurt.” Our workaday lives are exactly where inspiration is found!

By now I’ve written more than 300 devotionals, and on my desk are two fat folders crammed with events, perceptions, observations of the world around me. “Only twelve?” I ask the editor wistfully as each year’s book is prepared.

I’ve learned what every Daily Guideposts writer and reader knows. There is nothing that happens to us, not a thing we see or hear or touch that God cannot use to show us more of himself. Our lives are a daily journey in his company, and Daily Guideposts is where we meet to share our adventures on the way.

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Modern-Day Miracles

With God all things are possible. Matthew 19:26

Miracles are those biblical God-things of the past, right? That’s what some people believe.

While we may or may not experience the “mountain-moving” kind of miracles in our lifetime–the kind that leave your mouth gaping, your heart throbbing, and your doctor scratching his head in disbelief–does that negate Jesus’s power to accomplish them? Absolutely not!

As a Christian I’ve witnessed Jesus’s miracles in my own life. I’m sure you have too. But at times I may overlook the hidden ones. Jesus may send a God-thing on the wings of pain or interruption. Sometimes He sandwiches miracles into an ordinary day like the filling of an Oreo cookie. What a sweet, creamy surprise when we receive it as a gift from Him!

One problem in not recognizing miracles may be our shortsighted, earthly perspective. We pray for a raise or new job as a cure for our financial troubles and see no answer. But do we fail to connect the dots when repairs, doctor bills, and other usual expenses mysteriously disappear the next year? Sometimes the miracle may even arrive through God’s formation of Christ-like character in our own lives.

Jesus still does the impossible. Even He prayed for a miracle–some other way for His Father to accomplish salvation besides Jesus’s death (see Luke 22:42). But God controlled the power of life and death and planned a greater miracle: Jesus’s death and subsequent resurrection.

We ask and we wait… and then, like Jesus, we whisper that miracle prayer, “But if not… Thy will be done.”

Sometimes God gives us a knowing word. However, trusting God’s sovereignty is perhaps one of the hardest parts of the Christian life. Yet it’s truly where miracles begin.

Faith step: As you think back over the past year in your own life, what are some God-things you recognize as miracles? What are you trusting God for this year?

Living a Life of Gratitude

“I know that there is nothing better for them than to rejoice and to do good in one’s lifetime.” Ecclesiastes 3:12 (NASB)

Are we truly aware of just how much there is for us to be thankful and joyful about? God is everywhere. He created the Earth and His handiwork can be seen everywhere: in the air we breathe, the grass we run through at play, the mountains we scale and marvel over and the million other awe-inspiring miracles across the globe.

It’s so easy to get caught up in the daily grind that you can’t see the forest for the trees. It’s too easy to go through life only concerned about what you’re doing five minutes, an hour or a day from now without taking a moment to revel in all that the Lord has placed before us. To give thanks for the graces that He has bestowed upon everyone that is willing to accept them.

The Lord commands us to rejoice and to spread that joy like a light over our family, friends and the people whose lives we touch in our lifetime. We aren’t supposed to hoard our gifts and good fortune. We are supposed to give freely of our time, wealth, faith and happiness. In other words, we are to give of ourselves wholeheartedly.

Faith step: Read Psalm 118 and rejoice in the life the Lord has given you. Are you using that life to help yourself and others? If not, there’s no time like the present!

Lifting Each Other Up in Prayer

The apostles often met together and prayed with a single purpose in mind… Acts 1:14 (CEV)

Depression is a fierce enemy, making it a struggle just to stand up, get dressed and walk around. In living with it, the name of the game is to look and act ordinary. So while I was waiting for my treatment, I decided to go to church.

St. Bartholomew’s Church on New York City’s Park Avenue is a beautiful building, always full of life, children, music and people from every corner of a great city. The opening hymn, “O Sacred Head Sore Wounded,” about Jesus’ Crucifixion, made me feel ashamed to feel so wretched, to be suffering while clothed, fed, and surrounded by loving family and friends. Phrases from my down-to-earth English childhood came back to me: “Snap out of it, dear. Pull yourself together.”

I am trying, Lord, I would say to myself.

And then the service moved on to the Prayers of the People, asking for help for the hungry, poor and oppressed of the world, the sick and suffering, “and those we name now.” And the names rolled out, none familiar to me, but each carrying a hidden history. And then, “Brigitte Weeks,” said the lay minister.

They are praying for me. All those strangers, row upon row, are praying for me.

We hear so much about the power of prayer. Now I felt it wrapping around me, easing the stress in my shoulders, unclenching my hands. The depression wasn’t gone–there was no miracle cure–but a day that before had been cold and gray was now soft and warm.

Thank You, Lord, for that caring congregation that lifted my spirit with their prayers.

Lessons Learned from a Pumpkin Girl

A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance.—Proverbs 15:13 (KJV)

October is almost gone. The leaves are turning and there’s a chill in the air. Our fall decorations are out. About this time a few years ago, when my kids were tiny, we picked out a scarecrow from the grocery store, and for seven dollars it has been a source of fun memories.

Actually, the scarecrow isn’t an “it,” she’s a “she,” and she has acquired an identity of her own. The kids dubbed her Pumpkin Girl, and she’s as cute as her name, even though she doesn’t resemble a pumpkin at all.

My husband pulled her down from the garage attic a couple of days ago, and I noticed her standing there this morning when I backed out to do the school run. What I can’t get out of my head is her consistent air of peace and contentment. Granted, she’s an inanimate object, but hear me out.

She has weathered winds and rain, even some fierce storms over the years. She has been stuck where we put her, and her outsides show the wear and tear.

But her countenance has not faded. Her smile still lights the doorway to our home. I know that she cannot choose those characteristics, nor does she possess the life to care.

However, I can and I do. Am I choosing to wear Christ’s joy on my face despite life’s weather? Do I possess enough of Christ’s life in me to care? Long live Pumpkin Girl, and may my countenance light the doorway to Jesus.

Faith Step: Memorize Psalm 89:15 (NLT): “Happy are those who hear the joyful call to worship, for they will walk in the light of your presence, Lord.”

Joy Comes with the Morning

Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning. Psalm 30:5

Cancer struck more than 30 friends and family members in a three-year period. Most returned to health, but several succumbed to the disease. Also during that time my dad, mother-in-law, and father-in-law died. Then came the shock of our kids’ youth pastor abandoning his family.

Quite honestly, I hope we never experience another season like that again. The darkness of discouragement threatened to overtake us at times, and I wondered if the night would ever end.

The secret to perseverance, I found, was remembering Scripture’s promises to give strength, hope and peace. It helped to recall Jesus’s commands not to fear, and the reminders of His presence. It also helped to know that, contrary to whatever my emotions said, this night would not last forever.

As surely as the sun rises every day, so morning follows the dark night of grief. Wounds heal. We learn to breathe and, yes, to laugh again.

Perhaps the darkness of discouragement surrounds you. The night’s been a long one, and you doubt whether tomorrow’s dawn will ever come. Be encouraged, my friend. Morning’s on its way, and it brings joy.

Faith step: Turn Isaiah 61:3 into a prayer:“Father, thank You for promising to comfort me when I mourn. You will give beauty for ashes, joy instead of mourning, and praise instead of despair. Use my difficult situation to plant me like a strong and graceful oak for Your own glory. In Jesus’s name, amen.”

Journal Your Way to a Grateful Heart

But true praise is a worthy sacrifice; this really honors me. . . . —Psalm 50:23 (TLB)

The personal journal I’ve kept for nearly thirty years began as a challenge. I’d been grumbling about my circumstances, so a friend suggested I write down one thing, every single day, for which I was truly thankful. Even though the first entries were simple, it sometimes took me quite awhile to write, “Thanks, God, for a good night’s sleep” or “I praise You for keeping us safe during the hail storm.” Later, I began to praise God for answered prayer: “Thank You for Patrick’s finding just the right job . . . for guiding the doctor’s hand during my neighbor’s eye surgery . . . for giving me the right words for today’s speech.” Gradually the journal became a record of my walk with God. Looking back, I clearly saw His guiding hand, His presence and His leading in every circumstance, whether joyful or difficult.

I was browsing through last summer’s entries when the one for August 4 leaped off the page: “Thank You for the rain, but it wasn’t as much as we needed.” Whoa! That wasn’t a prayer, it was a complaint! I read on and discovered a disturbing number of complaint-prayers. When I replaced my car after 197,000 miles, I griped about what I didn’t get: “Thank You for the car, even though it doesn’t have a trunk light.” In response to a generous gift to the agency where I work, I’d written, “The money will help, but they could have given twice as much.”

Something was wrong with those entries because something was wrong with my relationship with God. During the difficult times, it was easy to recognize God’s blessings and give praise. But as my life became more stable, I’d begun taking His loving care for granted.

My recent entries are more honest. Yes, I still grumble and complain. But day by day, God is helping me develop the thing that was missing in my previous prayers and in my life—a thankful heart.

Lord, let me honor You with the praise that comes from a truly grateful heart.

This devotional is excerpted from Daily Guideposts Journal.