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Easter, Day of Glorious Hope

The most tremendous of all earthly events took place almost 2000 years ago when Jesus of Nazareth, put to death by the cruel power of Rome, rose from His tomb and appeared again to His sorrowing followers. With their despair turned to joy, they were inspired to carry His spirit and His teachings to the ends of the earth.

That was the first and greatest Easter experience. But Easter experiences have been happening ever since. They happen every day. They can happen to me and they can happen to you.

Sometimes they are small, gentle moments of reawakening. It is no accident, I’m sure, that Easter comes in the radiant season of rebirth after the bleakness of winter. Each year I walk around my farm on Quaker Hill in Pawling, New York, and thrill to the sound of returning birds. I find myself tingling to the touch of the warm sun and the odor of new young grass.

I marvel at the thought that no one but God knows the process that makes the grass so green. I meditate on the miraculous profusion of spring flowers in their infinite form and color and variety. When I think of old friends and become aware of wonderful qualities I never appreciated before, they too seem to blossom out in a personal springtime.

The Easter experience can also happen to people who are discouraged or defeated, who are groping their way through life burdened by problems and only half-alive, who have lost their sense of wonder, their capacity to be deeply moved, their ability to love and hope and dream.

Time and again I have seen the power of the risen Lord reach out and enfold and awaken such people—people entombed by the power of alcohol or drugs, people enslaved by immorality, people who suffer from lost love, lost faith, lost hope—who then rebound, victorious and whole, from their dark night of the soul. When that happens, when the spirit of Easter really touches them, they too come back from the dead.

But the deepest message of Easter now is, and always has been, the promise that this life here on earth is only a beginning for all of us, that the here and the hereafter are merely different aspects of the same thing. “Because I live,” said Jesus, “ye shall live also.” (John 14:19) I take that tremendous promise to mean that eternity does not begin with death; we are living in it now. Death is but a change; a change for the better, that’s all.

This Easter message can reach the human heart in many ways. Not long ago Inez Lowdermilk, wife of the famous conservationist Dr. Walter C. Lowdermilk, shared such an experience with us here at Guideposts. She told how over 40 years ago her husband came upon three yucca plants that had been uprooted and left by bulldozers alongside a new mountain road. He brought them home and rooted them in his Berkeley, California, rock garden.

Within a couple of years, Mrs. Lowdermilk said, two of the yuccas bloomed and died according to their normal life cycle. The other plant did nothing but sit in the rock garden, protected by its circle of needlelike spears.

Walter Lowdermilk went on to become an international authority on forestry, and soil and water conservation, especially famous for his plan for the useful distribution of the waters of the Jordan River in the Holy Land. Last spring he became ill, and one day, 42 years after the rescue of the uprooted yucca plants, his doctor told the family that Waiter’s life was coming to a close.

Soon after, a stalk appeared above the spiny base of the long-dormant yucca. It continued to grow as Waiter’s life ebbed away. Everyone who entered the house watched the stalk grow almost a foot a day until it was over 15 feet tall. On the day that Walter died, it burst into magnificent blossoms, a glorious natural candle made of hundreds of little branches dripping with masses of small ivory-colored bells. The beauty of this masterpiece of nature continued for an entire month.

What does this lovely and gentle story have to say to us? We are here on earth for a short time. God wants us to accept His plan for our lives, to develop our talents and make the fullest, most selfless, most constructive use of them. And finally, when our work here is done, we will be taken home, like the yucca that waited until the time was ripe—and then burst into glorious bloom.

Do You Believe in Halloween?

An interesting discussion popped up in the comments of a Mysterious Ways story we ran a few years ago, prompted by a simple question from a British reader: “How come you celebrate Halloween in America? In England and Europe it’s very ‘frowned upon’ by the Christian community.”

Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with dressing up once a year and getting treats (other than the fact that there’s an age limit… I miss grabbing my plastic pumpkin bucket and collecting all those mini candy bars). But the responses to this question from Mysterious Ways readers were wide-ranging:

“This is a celebration of a day for Satan,” one reader wrote. Another saw the holiday as an opportunity for outreach: “Halloween is the one day God brings many lost right up to my doorsteps… I hand out the best candy bag and put a religious tract in it explaining the real meaning of Halloween. This is one of my biggest ministry days.” Of course, others thought everyone should just play nice: “I don’t think this is the appropriate place to discuss personal feelings on the celebration of Halloween.”

Mysterious Ways stories may be spooky sometimes, but I wouldn’t call them “ghost stories.” It’s not just that I think the idea of dead people hanging around us—when there are better places to be—is silly. It’s that nothing anyone has ever written or said about ghosts indicates they can hear our innermost thoughts or know what’s in our hearts (except, perhaps, the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man from Ghostbusters). In Mysterious Ways stories, however, that’s what seems to happen. Comfort comes to people in their moments of greatest need. My faith tells me that there’s only one being capable of providing that.

Maybe that’s why I don’t see Halloween as a threat. We’re not celebrating ghosts—we’re acknowledging there are spooky things in this world that have the capacity to surprise and sometimes delight us—and I think that opens our eyes to search for the source.

Is Halloween a celebration of the occult? Or do you agree with the commenter who wrote, “Any day can ‘belong’ to Satan if you allow it. I choose to let every day belong to God. Trick-or-treating is not evil… Lighten up and let children have fun!”

Have you had a Mysterious Ways experience on a scary Halloween night that reminded you who is in control every day of the year? Share your story with us.

Dolly Parton on the Prophecy that Shaped Her Future

These days, Dolly Parton is busier than ever. The 73-year-old recently co-hosted the Country Music Awards and performed a special concert in honor of her 50th anniversary as an Opry member, one of the highest honors a country musician can receive. On top of all that, her new series Dolly Parton’s Heartstrings recently premiered on Netflix.

And Parton has no plans of slowing down. She’s still striving to live up to the calling that was placed on her life as a young girl.

“My grandpa was a Pentecostal preacher. So healing and praying and being anointed and all that stuff was nothing new to us, cause we survived because of our faith in God,” Parton said in a roundtable for Heartstrings at her DreamMore resort in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee.

In her church, prayer often involved anointing people with oil. Still, Parton was confused when an older woman in their congregation delivered a special message to her one day.

“She said I was anointed and [that] I was going to do great things,” Parton recalled.

Parton wasn’t sure what the word anointed meant so she asked her mom.

“Mama said…that just means that God has his hand on you, that you may do something special,” Parton said. “But that triggered a faith in me, because I believe that I was supposed to do something good…I never let go of that because I always felt responsible to God that I was supposed to be doing something for God. And so I still feel like that. And I’m still doing it. Trying to.”

This spiritual calling has been a driving force in her life for decades.

“I really feel like I have a calling,” Parton said. “I feel like God had told me early on in a feeling that I was supposed to go till He told me to stop and He [hasn’t] said nothing yet about quitting. And so I ain’t said nothing about retiring yet.”

One way she maintains her energy is through a daily prayer ritual.

“Every day I pray for God to lead me and to take out all the wrong things, wrong people in my life, bring all the right things, right people in, and to let me glorify Him and uplift mankind,” Parton said. “Let me be a light, and a vessel to be used…I just really want to do what I can in this world to make things better, if I can.”

Parton recently recommitted herself to creating things specifically focused on bringing light and faith into the world—something she thinks everyone can do.

“There is a God light in all of us, there’s a God coal or whatever,” Parton said. “There’s something bigger and better than us and we need to connect to that to make us better people. And the more you can draw from that, the better off you are, not just for yourself, but for all the things from people that you can touch by believing that.”

Does This Artistic Creation Encourage Healing?

O LORD, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. Psalm 139:1 (NLT)

I have been completely color-blind since birth, so I see the world like a black-and-white movie. Attending a class at church about using coloring to deepen my prayer life might seem like an odd choice for me. But when I saw the blurb for Colorful Prayer, I knew I needed to sign up. It sounded like fun, and I had labeled pencils. I appreciated anything that could allow me to weave creativity into my time with Jesus.

“This isn’t about artistic ability, and it isn’t about the colors,” the instructors assured us. “It’s about meditating on a Scripture and letting the picture flow from that.”

Still, when it came time to spend a few moments in prayer with our coloring page, verse, and pencils, I became insecure about being the only one in the room who couldn’t see the colors and was afraid I might put two together that didn’t match.

Then a kind voice whispered, I don’t care if your colors match. I created them all. Choose colors that mean something to you. The knowledge that Jesus could see what had always been a mystery to me and that He would know exactly why I chose red, purple, ocean blue, and lavender liberated me to create a prayer bursting with the colors of my gratitude to the One who knew and loved me. “O Lord you . . . know everything about me,” including the fears that so often get in our way, even when we’re trying to focus on Him.

When we trust Jesus’s love for the heart He knows so well, we find the freedom to worship and love Him from a deeper, more honest place.

Faith Step: Which colors have special meaning for you? Use them to create something that represents Jesus’s deep knowledge of you and love for you. Ask Him to free you from the fears that restrict you from trying new things

Divinely Connected Through Lyme Disease

In the dream, 18 months before I came to the Nevada desert as a last resort, I stood at the window of a cozy lakeside cabin staring out at the tranquil blue water. How did I get here? I didn’t know. But I wasn’t alone. By a large stone fireplace, a tall, lean man watched over me. Although I couldn’t discern his fea­tures, I felt him smiling at me with pure radiance. He knew me better than anyone could. I was happy. Peaceful. Hopeful. Alive. Then I woke up to another day of pain.

Now I was receiving treatment at a facility in Reno, Nevada, for the illness that had stolen so many things—my job, my fiancé and most of my friends—before I even knew what it was: Lyme disease. I worried I’d die before the treatments took effect. They were brutal and intense. Most patients here had loved ones by their side, to help them through the grueling process. A friend from back home in New York, Jeanette, was able to stay with me for two weeks and accompany me from my hotel to the clinic.

“Don’t worry,” she said. “You’re going to be okay. You’re not alone in all this.”

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I bit my tongue to keep from laugh­ing bitterly. Not alone? Once Jeanette left, who would be here for me?

For the past seven and a half years, I’d spent nearly every day in pain. First, it was just a rash. Then flu symp­toms that wouldn’t go away. Within two months, my immune system was shot and I was sick virtually all the time. I shuttled between medical ap­pointments and my bed. I was ex­hausted the moment I woke up in the morning. I couldn’t focus on any­thing. Work became impossible, and I had to give up my handbag design business. Eventually, I had to sell my home to cover the bills. It became too much for my fiancé to deal with—he left me. Who wants to marry someone who is always sick?

At last, a doctor figured out what was wrong: Lyme disease. I’d been bitten by a tick carrying the bacteria. Finally. A name for my illness. A diag­nosis. Now I would get better.

Well, not really. When not caught early, Lyme can spread throughout the body, causing heart problems, severe muscle and joint issues, and neuropathy. My disease had pro­gressed so far, I was on the verge of organ failure. Worst of all, a cure at this stage was very complicated and expensive. Sometimes all that could be done was to try to minimize the pain and fatigue.

What reason did I have to keep going? Always tired. Constantly nau­seous. Joints aching. Unbearably anxious. Ninety-eight percent of me was ready to quit. I cursed the insect that had bitten me, the tiny speck of living dust that was ruining my life.

Then I remembered that dream before my diagnosis. So vivid, so real. I’d woken with the blaze in the fireplace still warming my skin. The feeling of being loved, protected, by the faceless man who knew me intimately. I’d stared at my bedroom ceiling later that night, wondering who he was, wondering what it had all meant. Was I meant to keep fight­ing? That happiness I’d felt looking out that window…I couldn’t forget it. The two percent of me that was still willing to fight clung desperately to that hope.

In the 18 months since, I’d re­searched the best treatment and managed to get a spot at one of the best outpatient Lyme centers in the world, at the foot of the Sierra Nevada mountains. But I had no reason to think I’d ever get better.

Two days before Jeanette was scheduled to leave, I sat hooked up to an IV, drugs pumping through my system, feeling ill and antsy. “I need to go to the kitchen,” I said to my friend. I left the room and towed my IV pole down the hall, bags swinging. Maybe I’ll just walk out the door and into the desert someplace. Only Jeanette would miss me really. I turned my head.…

Out of nowhere, a man rushed around the corner, holding his IV pole as if it were the stick of a race car. Bam! Our poles collided. Mine nearly toppled over.

“I’m so sorry!” the man said, trying to untangle his IV from mine.

“No, it’s my fault,” I said. “I was spacing out.” I tugged my line free from his and looked up at him. He’s handsome. Tall, skinny. A grin spread over his face.

“Hi,” I said, “I’m Ana.”

“I’m Greg,” he said. “Funny bump­ing into you like this…”

He didn’t stop smiling for the next hour. He followed me to my room and we compared notes on our treat­ments, all the days of misery we’d spent not knowing what was wrong with us. But we also shared things that had nothing to do with why we were there—he told me about a beautiful river that ran through Reno, his current home, and the condo he was renovating for his mother. Three hours later, he offered to drive me back to my hotel. I almost forgot about Jeanette.

“It’s okay,” she said, smiling. “Ride with him.”

The day Jeanette had to leave, Greg took her to the airport. “I know how it feels to be alone in this,” he told me. “Maybe we can help take care of each other.”

After all that had happened, I fig­ured I had nothing to lose. If things didn’t work out, I wouldn’t be in a worse position than I was before. Who knows? I thought. He might even stay.

Greg stood by my side through the worst of days. He never flinched. Through it all, he radiated a warm kindness that felt so familiar, even though we’d just met.

Five months of his presence was enough to get me thinking—maybe that tiny tick was really a love bug. After all, the suffering and pain had ultimately led me to Greg. We mar­ried one year later.

An acquaintance found a condo for us to rent in Lake Tahoe, close enough to the center so we could easily continue our treatment. The minute we walked in, I knew I’d seen it before. The calm, blue waters of Lake Tahoe visible through the win­dow. The large stone fireplace. And Greg, smiling broadly, his eyes shin­ing with a stronger love than I could have ever dreamed.

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Divine Intervention Saved His Life

Do you believe that God intervenes directly in our lives? Some 20 years ago, I would’ve told you absolutely not.

That’s when I took a trip to Boise, Idaho, for work. I was an electronics engineer and business consultant and needed to meet with an important client. I was walking around the city center beforehand when a woman approached me. I had a feeling she might be a member of some kind of group, interested in proselytizing and handing out pamphlets. Instead, she struck up a conversation. We exchanged pleasantries, made small talk. Then, unprompted, she launched into a seemingly random story.

“Years ago, I was in a terrible accident,” she said. “Hit-and-run. My toddler was in the back seat. I couldn’t get her out. We were trapped with no one around to help.”

Why is she telling me this? I wondered, growing uncomfortable. “A large man appeared out of nowhere,” she said. “He didn’t speak a word, just opened one of the damaged doors like it was nothing. He got my child out. I checked to make sure she was okay. When I looked up, he was gone! We’d been driving through farmland. There were no trees around or anything else that would shield him from view. He just disappeared!”

It was certainly an odd thing to mention. Especially out of the blue. I politely excused myself. It was time for my meeting anyway. As I walked away, I realized she hadn’t given me any literature. Why had she picked me to talk to? The story she’d shared had been interesting, though I doubted it was true. I believed in God more or less, but I didn’t think he could physically intervene in our world. As an engineer, I was a pretty logical person. I’d never seen or heard of anything I couldn’t explain. I figured there was probably an explanation for this story too.

For some reason, though, what she’d said stuck with me. It set me off on a years-long quest to find out more. I researched inexplicable spiritual experiences. Read up on the metaphysical. The more I learned, the more I wondered—had she come across some kind of miraculous bridge between the physical world and the spiritual? I was open to the idea but still had my doubts.

A few years later, my wife and I decided we were due for a vacation. I was working overtime and in need of a getaway. We opted for a weekend road trip to Sedona, Arizona, for its gorgeous landscape—red rocks rising from the dessert—and the vaunted spirituality of the area. In my years of research, I’d read about folks who claimed to feel powerful energy and have strange experiences in the mountains.

When my wife and I reached the hotel, she decided to rest. But I was anxious to check out the mountains. One of the energy spots was supposed to be on a nearby peak. “I’ll be back soon,” I told her, grabbing the car keys.

I drove to the site. I parked at the trailhead and started walking. There were no cars in the parking lot and no one else on the path. It was quiet as I hiked, my smooth-soled sneakers crunching along the sandy red dirt. Not the best shoes for hiking, I thought.

The higher up I got, the narrower and steeper the path became. The trees grew sparse. The slope dropped off sharply until I was walking on a cliff. I was almost to the peak. I stopped for a minute to take in the spectacular view. The red rocks burnished by the bright afternoon sun. I looked over the edge. There were no trees or plants blocking my view. I could see straight down a thousand feet. I turned back to the trail—and slipped.

Suddenly, I was tumbling over myself. My hands grasped frantically for something—anything—to grab. Nothing. I saw the bright sky above me, the sun shining brilliantly into my eyes as I slid over the edge, my arms stretched out. It was harsh and beautiful. This is it, I thought. The last thing I’ll ever see.

Then I felt something placed against my hand. As if someone was pressing a rope into my palm. My fingers closed around it. Thwack! My body slammed against the side of the cliff, dangling in the air. I looked up. I was holding on to a shrub bending over the edge. I wondered how long the small plant would support my 250-pound frame.

Was this just a delay in my demise? I pulled up as hard as I could. Hand over hand. Would the plant hold? I muscled my way up to the base of the shrub, grabbed the edge of the cliff and pulled myself back onto solid ground. I lay there for a moment, breathing hard and shaking. I glanced at the small bush that had saved my life. It was the only plant life around. I knew it hadn’t been there before. I was sure of it. It seemed to have simply appeared under my fingers as I fell. How had it held me? How had I pulled myself up? Sure, adrenaline was a factor, but it felt like something else.

I made my way back down the trail, minding where I stepped the whole way. Back at the car, I looked up at the mountains one more time before heading back to the hotel. To this day, I can’t explain what happened to me on that cliff. No amount of research or logic will give me an answer. To be honest, I don’t need one. I know in my soul that the divine stepped in to help me that day. And now, when people express doubts about God working in our lives, I have a story of my own to tell.

Divine Intervention Helped Him Quit Smoking

“We’re starting a fundraising campaign to help with the cost of the new Family Life Center. And to make some renovations to the church,” my pastor announced after his Sunday sermon. “Please consider donating—no amount is too small. Anything would be a help.”

I didn’t have a lot of extra cash to burn, but I was dropping more than $30 a week on cigarettes. If I quit smoking, I could donate that money. After church ended, I left with that thought still on my mind.

At that point, I’d been a smoker for most of my life. I had picked up the habit when I was 15 years old. I was 55. I’d tried to quit many times. But inevitably, a few hours after my “last” cigarette, I’d start itching for another hit of nicotine. I always gave in.

Years ago, I’d ripped a photo of a blackened pair of smoker’s lungs out of a magazine at my doctor’s office. I’d kept it, to motivate myself. It was tucked away in my desk drawer, along with a list I’d written of reasons to quit. It numbered more than 20. But it hadn’t stopped me from smoking. More recently, my father, a lifelong smoker, had died after a long battle with lung cancer. That hadn’t stopped me either. So what made me think this time would be any different?

My wife, Jackie, was supportive when I told her my idea to donate the money I would have usually spent on cigarettes. I didn’t tell anyone else, though. Just in case it didn’t work out.

I made several earnest attempts over the next few weeks, but I just couldn’t stop smoking. One night, I stepped out onto the back deck (no smoking in the house) for a cigarette. I shook it out of the carton, rolled it around in my fingers and then lit up. I looked at the burning cigarette in my hand and hung my head. I was so frustrated. So disappointed with myself.

During my life, I’d prayed to God for many things. But I’d never once asked him for help conquering my addiction to nicotine. It never felt right to bother God with it. Smoking was my problem, something I needed to deal with on my own. But right now, I was at my breaking point.

“Lord, please, take this cup from me,” I whispered.

Immediately, I felt a rush of guilt for using Jesus’ words to pray about smoking. But, at the same time, it was the most heartfelt prayer I’d ever made. It took a while for me to gather the courage to try yet again, but finally I started the day without a cigarette. By the afternoon I realized that I wasn’t feeling that insistent urge to light up. I could smoke…but I didn’t have to.

I used nicotine patches, but even with them, I should’ve been experiencing withdrawal symptoms. I wasn’t. Soon I didn’t even need the patch. It was incredible. I donated my cigarette money to the church’s fundraiser, just as I’d planned.

Jackie was so proud. Family and friends congratulated me as well. I had trouble accepting the praise, because I didn’t feel as if I’d done anything. But I’d nod and smile anyway because I couldn’t even explain exactly what had happened. Had I experienced a miracle? Had God healed me of my addiction? Or would I disappoint myself once again?

I wasn’t sure until one night, when I had the most incredible dream. It felt acutely important. Heaven-sent. I dreamed I was in an auditorium packed with people. There was a stage, set up with a podium and a microphone. We were waiting for someone to speak.

“Joe!” a voice called out. There was a man on stage, wearing a suit. I couldn’t really see his face. “Joe Hester, get up here!” I was suddenly transported to the stage. “Tell me, Joe,” said the man, who somehow looked like everyone and no one I’d ever met, all at once. “Tell me, are you a smoker?”

No, I thought. Deep in my soul I knew it was true. I’m not a smoker. Not anymore.

When I woke up, my pillow was wet with tears. If I wasn’t sure before, now I was. On Sunday I gave my donation, confident I would do the same the following week. I’d actually quit smoking. As the pastor spoke, I looked down at the weekly bulletin grasped in my hand. Printed on the back, plain as anything, were the words: Lose your shyness, find your voice and tell them what God has done.

It was as if I’d been bopped upside the head. I knew exactly how I’d been able to beat my addiction and would tell anyone who asked. Jackie was first. I told her everything— about my desperate prayer, the dream, even the bulletin.

All this happened 16 years ago, and to this day, I haven’t had a single cigarette. Now, when people ask me how I quit, I tell them that I didn’t do it on my own. I finally bothered the One who could give me the help I needed.

Divine Humor: How Laughter Benefits Us Spiritually

It was 45 minutes to my cousin’s wedding reception in Nashville, Tennessee, and my mom was driving. I had my cousin’s vanilla-frosted, two-tier wedding cake on my lap. My mom made a sharp left turn, and the box went flying. The cake was smashed against the dashboard. Frosting was smeared all over the inside of the rental car.

I glared at my mom, ready to let her have it. Then burst out laughing. Not just a few giggles. More like gut-busting laughter. Pretty soon, my mom was laughing too. Tears streamed down our cheeks; we couldn’t have stopped if we tried.

We made it to the reception and even managed to make the cake look somewhat presentable. Weeks later, though, I was still scratching my head over the incident. Why on earth had I laughed? The moment had been freeing, cathartic. Almost spiritual. As if the laughter was coming from deep within my soul. Could it be that my laughter wasn’t just a senseless reaction to a potential disaster? But, rather, some sort of gift from God?

Curious, I brought my questions to Father James Martin, a Catholic priest and best-selling author of My Life With the Saints. In 2011, Father Martin wrote a book called Between Heaven and Mirth: Why Joy, Humor and Laughter Are at the Heart of the Spiritual Life. Father Martin was dismayed that so many of the Christians he met assumed faith was strictly a solemn matter. Laughter is actually a tenet of faith, Father Martin told me. “The endpoint of the Christian life is joy,” he said. “Yet we don’t privilege joy as much as we do suffering.”

There is plenty of humor to be found in the Bible. When Nathanael in the Gospel of John hears about Jesus, he remarks, “Can anything good come from Nazareth?” According to Father Martin, Nathanael is throwing shade at Nazareth, a joke lost on many modern readers.

“A large part of the Gospels was written to explain the Passion narrative, so we tend to focus on those stories over the ones in which Jesus was more joyful,” Father Martin says. “But the Passion was only one week of Jesus’ life. Let’s not forget his first miracle was to turn water into wine at a wedding celebration!”

That doesn’t mean taking Jesus’ miracles or his messages lightly. But “if you think of Jesus as always serious, then your ability to relate to him as a person of joy is limited,” Father Martin says.

If even Jesus knew the importance of laughter, does that mean that God actually wants us to laugh more? Yes, says Susan Sparks, author of Laugh Your Way to Grace: Reclaiming the Spiritual Power of Humor. Sparks is a former trial lawyer turned minister and standup comedian. She says laughter is uniquely human. “We are the only creatures that really laugh,” she says. “And since we’re made in the image of the divine, that must mean God laughs too.”

Ergo, laughter is innately spiritual.

“There’s something fundamentally holy about it,” Sparks says. “If you can laugh at yourself, you can forgive yourself. If you can forgive yourself, you can forgive others too.”

Laughter can even heal. Sparks recalls her battle with breast cancer 10 years ago. She credits laughing with speeding up the recovery process. “Being able to laugh in a place of pain was the most powerful thing I could do to take my life back,” she says. “I’m not sure how I was able to laugh in the middle of all that. But it was something I tapped into within myself that helped me survive.”

Indeed, the health benefits of humor are well-documented. Norman Cousins, author of the groundbreaking Anatomy of an Illness as Perceived by the Patient: Reflections on Healing and Regeneration, was one of the first to popularize the idea of laughter as medicine, in 1979. Cousins had overcome a painful battle with connective tissue disease by prescribing himself laughter. “I made the joyous discovery that ten minutes of genuine belly laughter had an anesthetic effect and would give me at least two hours of pain-free sleep,” he wrote.

Recent scientific findings support Cousins’s “joyous discovery.” According to a 2011 study from the University of Oxford, laughter triggers the release of mood-boosting endorphins and increases an individual’s pain threshold by as much as 10 percent. In 2005, researchers from the University of Maryland School of Medicine found that laughter increased blood flow by about 22 percent. It’s no wonder that Dr. Michael Miller, the study’s principal investigator, recommended “15 minutes of laughter on a daily basis.” Hey, can I get a prescription for that?

Still, most evidence of laughter’s deep-rooted benefits is anecdotal. Take Debra Hart, a nurse, lay minister and member of the Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor. In 1997, Debra found herself alone in a church parking lot, contemplating suicide. She was overwhelmed with grief after the death of a close friend. In the midst of her pain, something remarkable happened. “As I was thinking about ending my life, a joke popped into my head.” It was a joke she’d heard at church about a man sitting on top of his roof during a flood. A group in a rowboat comes by and offers to help him, but the man replies, “God’s going to save me.” A motorboat arrives, followed by a helicopter. The man’s response is the same. Finally, the waters rise and the man drowns. When he gets to heaven, he asks God, “Why didn’t you save me?” God replies, “I sent a rowboat, a motorboat and a helicopter!”

Something inside Hart clicked. Laughter bubbled out, releasing her pain and sorrow. “I kept thinking that I didn’t want to die and hear God say, ‘I sent you a motorboat!’” Hart says with a laugh. She called a psychiatrist and entered counseling. In the 20 years since, Hart has made “mirth-filled laughter” the focus of her work.

“It’s the kind of authentic laughter that makes your stomach ache,” Hart says. “Several studies suggest that this specific type of laughter can raise your good cholesterol and even lower your blood sugar.” That’s one reason many people have started to practice laughter therapy, which teaches them how to use laughter to release tension.

“If you can laugh, then you’re breathing,” Hart says. “When you take that breath, you’re reconnecting with the world. And with God.”

I thought back to my cousin’s wedding cake. How I knew, on some level, that things would be okay as long as I could laugh. Father Martin was right. Laughter isn’t just a biological reaction. It’s a divine gift.

Why do we laugh? Because we’re created to.

Discover the Power of Love in Good Friday

Good Friday is a significant reminder of God’s love for humanity. However, when reading the Gospel’s story of the crucifixion, it can be troubling. It’s difficult to imagine that a person would undergo such cruel torture and death so that all others can find salvation, forgiveness and grace.

It isn’t until we understand and experience the power of God’s love, that the cross and death of Jesus makes sense. Once we do, this tragic story transforms into the greatest love story of all time. The sacrificial act of Jesus speaks to a God who is willing to give up his son so that we humans can experience the power of his unrelenting and undying love for us.

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The Scripture teaches us that while we were sinners, Christ died for us so that we could be forgiven and saved. When I reflect on the meaning of Good Friday, it amazes me how much we are loved by God.

The only way we can truly value the power of love is to embrace and experience it ourselves. As someone once wrote, “It wasn’t nails that held Jesus to the cross; it was His love for us.” This Good Friday let us discover how much God truly loves us.

Lord, open our hearts to understand the great love expressed on the cross for us.

Dimes from Heaven

We’ve all heard the song “Pennies from Heaven,” and several years ago, I wrote a story about people who were receiving pennies out of the blue—mostly lying on streets or in the bottom of their purses, but also in more random places.

One young soldier was sent to Iraq shortly after his father died, and while there, he found pennies all over the place. This was especially unusual because he was living in a desert, and few people carried coins. The soldier felt the pennies were a signal from his father that the older man was watching over him. He returned home safely.

After the story appeared, I received several responses from people who wanted me to know that pennies were passé—they were receiving dimes! “Dylan, a good friend of mine drowned on a camping trip,” a teenager wrote. “Months later, a few of us started receiving dimes in odd places. None of us had ever heard about dimes from heaven.”

One evening the teens got together simply to talk about Dylan. After they went home, each found several dimes in odd places. “I think it’s his way of letting us know that he is safe and happy,” says one teen. “Every time I find a dime now, I have a sense of peace.”

“Just after my grandmother died, I started finding dimes in the oddest places,” says Susan. “I knew they were from her.” Susan has found dimes on the fireplace, in a stove under the burner, even arranged in little stacks. When her family moved to a new house, Susan opened the empty front closet door and saw a dime sitting in the corner. “I usually find dimes when I am having a troublesome time,” she says. “Then I am reminded of my grandma and I know that everything will be okay.”

Susan has started saving the dimes, and shares the stories with friends who often start to find their own dimes. To her the dimes are a special witness that there is life after death.

“Since my son passed away on January 6th, 2010, my family has been finding dimes,” says a woman we’ll call Anne. “The latest find really confirmed my belief that the dimes are messages from heaven.”

Anne’s son was in the Army Reserves. Recently his four-year-old cousin Benji was at a county fair and visited the Army National Guard booth. The soldiers gave him an Army wallet, and the little boy was thrilled. “The next day, Benji came to show me his new wallet,” Anne says. “He opened the wallet and pulled out a dime! I asked him where he got the dime. He told me that he had found it behind the bed in his sister’s room.”

“This was the room that my son always slept in while visiting his cousins,” Anne says. “I know my son was looking down on us that day and winking.”

What could these stories mean? Is there any spiritual significance to them? Have you ever received coins and regarded them as messages? Post below!

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Did Her Son Experience a Miraculous Healing?

I stared at the clock on the ICU wall. It was 3 a.m. and I couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t think. I couldn’t pray anymore. My two-year-old son, Joseph, lay on the hospital bed, hooked up to about a million machines. My husband, Brian, slept in an armchair by Joseph’s bed. Every beep of the machinery seemed to echo my deepest, darkest fears. Joseph might not make it….

A day ago, Joseph had been a happy, mellow toddler who loved playing with trucks and eating mac and cheese. Now doctors were preparing Brian and me for the worst. For the inevitable. All because of a freak accident in the snow.

We’d spent that entire Saturday, January 24, 2015, sledding and building snowmen, only returning to our warm apartment when Joseph got hungry. After dinner, I noticed there were still kids playing in the snow-covered parking lot of our building. So we headed outside again.

Brian and Joseph began constructing a fort in a snow pile beneath a towering pine tree. I leaned against a fence nearby. The normally drab parking lot looked ethereal with only a single streetlamp casting an other­worldly glow, picking out Joseph’s yellow snowsuit in the dimness. I took a deep breath of cold air. Just as I did, I heard it. A crash, like a freight train. Then another. Before I could move, a huge cloud of snow obscured my vision.

When it cleared, I saw Brian struggle to his feet, then frantically dig at the mound of snow in front of him. I gasped. A giant tree limb had broken loose from the pine, crashing onto the snow pile. Brian continued to dig. Wait a minute. Where was Joseph?

I ran to Brian’s side. Now I could see a smudge of yellow in the snowbank. Joseph! He was trapped face­down beneath the tree limb—it was too heavy to lift! I yelled at the kids playing nearby to get help. A neighbor ran up and joined Brian, digging Joseph out of the snow. Carefully, they turned Joseph over on the snow pile. His eyelids fluttered. He whimpered. Then he vomited. Blood dripped out of his mouth and nose. By the time the paramedics arrived, he was unconscious.

Joseph was rushed to the nearest hospital. The medical team there stabilized him, but his vitals were slipping. His skull had been crushed. He was transported to Boston Children’s Hospital. Brian and I watched as a team of 20 worked on our son, trying to keep him alive. We needed more than doctors. I sent out a desperate plea on Facebook.

We need prayers. A heavy tree limb fell on Joseph, and he has skull fractures. Please pray for him!

Every hour only seemed to bring more bad news. The 50-pound tree limb had fallen 75 feet, hitting our son’s skull directly between the left and right hemispheres of his brain. The MRI showed too many skull fractures to count. The damage to his brain and spine were indeterminable. But, most likely, fragments of his skull had been pressed deep into his brain matter.

“There’s a lot of trauma,” one of the doctors said. “We’ll have to wait for the swelling to go down before we can even do a second MRI. Then we’ll know more.” His expression told me it wouldn’t be good news.

Now I sat in the ICU in the early hours of the morning, holding on to our last scrap of hope—that second MRI. It would tell us how bad the in­jury was. Very possibly catastrophic. I was trying to stay optimistic. I’d posted on Facebook. I’d wept with family and friends. But it wasn’t enough. I had to do something be­fore panic took over. Pray, I told myself. Pray. I squeezed my eyes shut.

But before I could form the words to say to God, I saw it. Not my imagination. Not a dream. More like a vision. Like a scene from a film. Playing in my mind’s eye.

A woman in a mantle and flowing robe. A sad smile on her face, tears dampening her cheeks. Mother Mary? She reached out, touched my arm, as if to reassure me. I felt a surge of strength. She said nothing, but I knew what she was saying. She was there to help me, a mother who knew the agony of losing a son. She wasn’t just with me. She was praying for me. In the next instant, the scene changed. Flashes of green light. They were everywhere. Like the color of the hills of Ireland. I saw Joseph then. The green light washed over his frail body. It stopped, lingering on his head and his neck. Then, just like that, it was gone.

I opened my eyes and gasped for breath. Next to me, Joseph lay unchanged. I scanned the room for any sign of the woman or that bright green light. All I could see was a monitor behind Joseph’s bed blinking green. The same color as the flashes of light I’d just seen! Had it always been there? Before I could make much sense of it, a nurse entered Joseph’s room to check his vitals, followed by a doctor. I put the strange visions out of my mind. I was probably just exhausted.

In the afternoon, we finally got the word. Joseph’s second MRI had been scheduled. I posted on Facebook again. Important MRI at 5 a. m. Please pray for Joseph!

Once again, I didn’t sleep a wink in the ICU that night. There were no more visions. Just fervent prayers on my end. When five o’clock came, Jo­seph was wheeled to the MRI room. I prayed and prayed, trying to draw strength from that green light and the woman. Brian and I paced the waiting room. I checked my phone. To my surprise, I had scores of notifications on Facebook. All in response to my post about the MRI. It had been shared over and over. Comments and private messages came from around the world. From people I knew and from complete strangers.

“I will say a prayer right now,” one of my friends wrote.

“We are praying for Joseph,” someone else posted on my page. A Hindu yogi in India. How had he gotten word of Joseph? “We will be meditating on the banks of the River Ganges at 5 a.m. our time….”

“Kathryn, we will not stop praying for little Joseph” came another message, this one from Iowa.

“We are convening our society,” wrote a monk in Israel, “to pray non­stop for Joseph for one hour.”

People in California. Texas. Florida. Oregon. Across the East Coast. All were praying for Joseph. Praying for me. I could feel their words surrounding us, enveloping us like that green light. Comforting us like the woman in the mantle.

Two hours later, Joseph was wheeled back into the ICU. The doctor had tears in his eyes. Oh, God, what did they find? Brian and I gripped each others’ hands.

“We lose children every year to less serious accidents,” the doctor finally said. “I’ve never seen anything like this. I can’t explain it. I’m shocked the damage isn’t worse, much worse….”

The MRI showed something remarkable. The swelling had gone down. The fractures were serious, but only one bone pressed into Joseph’s brain, just a centimeter in between the two hemispheres. Joseph was going to live. Twenty-four hours later, he woke up.

Joseph will deal with his traumatic brain injury for the rest of his life. But he continues to make progress. Today he’s a chatty five-year-old who keeps us on our toes. His recovery baffled doctors. It blesses us.

Joseph doesn’t remember anything about his time in the hospital. I haven’t told him much about the accident. Or the mysterious visions and the 5 a.m. prayers across the globe. Recently, though, we got to talking about God. I asked him what he thought the Heavenly Father looked like. Joseph didn’t hesitate.

“God is the man,” he said, “with the green glow around him.”

Destined for Guideposts

I’ve written before about the miracle that brought me to Guideposts. Well, the other day I discovered I wasn’t alone! Sandy Wisor, who works for Guideposts OurPrayer Ministry, was also led to our company in a pretty amazing way.

Here’s her story…

In 2001, my mother’s kidneys shut down for a second time. After much discussion, we decided it was time to go in for donor testing. We contacted the Albany Medical Center transplant team in upstate New York and attended a general meeting on kidney donation.

Every meeting attendee was given an information packet, including an inspiring story–How Could I Ever Say Yes?–about a daughter who donates her kidney to her mother.

The article was published by a company I’d never heard of before–Guideposts–in Angels on Earth magazine. After reading it, I was determined to become my mother’s donor. I’d do anything for Mom, especially if it meant she’d live a happier, healthier life off dialysis.

While waiting for our blood test results, we prayed for good news. A few weeks later, we discovered I was in fact a match–one out of six antigens to be exact. It was a true answer to our prayers!

Over the next several months, Mom and I spent quality time together in prayer and even started exercising to get ready for the big day. Whenever I felt nervous, I reread that Guideposts story.

Finally the time came to prepare for the surgery. We traveled to the Albany Medical Center twice so that Mom could receive a blood transfusion from my unit of donated blood.

Shortly after, I received a call at work from the transplant coordinator. She said the second transfusion results had turned positive, which meant that I could no longer be Mom’s donor. It broke my heart to tell Mom the surgery was off.

Thankfully, a few months later, Mom received a kidney transplant from an anonymous donor. Of course, I was overjoyed that everything worked out. But I couldn’t help but wonder.

Why did God have my mother and I go through all that–the surgery prep, the non-stop praying, the blood transfusions, the endless tests–if I wasn’t meant to be her donor? And what was the purpose of reading that article? It seemed pointless.

Life lesson: God knows
exactly what He’s doing,
even if we don’t!

I got my answer a year later. I was flipping through my local newspaper when something caught my eye. A job listing at Guideposts. I wouldn’t have recognized the name had it not been for that story. I applied to the position and started my job as a prayer associate for Guideposts OurPrayer Ministry.

I quickly realized God had been training me for that job all along through my mother’s situation and that article. One of my new responsibilities was answering calls on the Guideposts prayer line and responding to online prayer requests.

I could relate to so many of the prayers we received. I too had faced uncertainty, fear, doubt and anxiety, especially with my mother’s illness.

Today, I’m the Senior Prayer Associate at OurPrayer and I am truly blessed with a wonderful job supporting volunteers globally and reaching out and lifting up those in need of prayer.

Life lesson: God knows exactly what He’s doing, even if we don’t!

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